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Old 07-10-2012, 08:11 AM
 
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lol ok retard, whatever helps you sleep
lmao, no reason to get your panties in a bunch. One day, you will realize that what im telling you is true. Or perhaps you wont, and will continue living in your world of nonsense and fantasy. have a good one!
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Old 07-10-2012, 08:16 AM
 
Location: New Jersey
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lol b/c he is wrong

he's actually not though. I agree with the first one, if you don't have that one forget with most people....now, those other things you said how many regular women do you know who are married to famous, rich men in high powered jobs who drive great cars? LOL.
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Old 07-10-2012, 08:17 AM
 
Location: New Zealand and Australia
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he's actually not though. I agree with the first one, if you don't have that one forget with most people....now, those other things you said how many regular women do you know who are married to famous, rich men in high powered jobs who drive great cars? LOL.
re-read I said "any of the following" meaning one or more......not all.
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Old 07-10-2012, 08:19 AM
 
Location: Viña del Mar, Chile
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re-read I said "any of the following" meaning one or more......not all.

Hahah, I think you're kind of going overboard here.. It's not that hard to pick up a girl.
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Old 07-10-2012, 08:21 AM
 
Location: New Zealand and Australia
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Hahah, I think you're kind of going overboard here.. It's not that hard to pick up a girl.
Nope, that is the OP problem. He doesn't offer any of those currently. Good news for him, its possible to change it.
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Old 07-10-2012, 08:24 AM
 
Location: New Jersey
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re-read I said "any of the following" meaning one or more......not all.

Only the first one is accurate, IMO. most of the regular women are not married to high powered men OR rich men OR famous men, etc. etc. I feel majority of men want certain types of women (despite fact most of them will never get them, so they end up settling for 'less.' )
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Old 07-10-2012, 08:27 AM
 
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Its alot different for men and women. Women need looks, because thats what men are attracted to. For men, none of those things matter. Consider this. Almost all men, can tell if a woman can be a suitable partner by simply looking at a picture. Almost no women can. its because of the gender roles and womans ability to give birth. Men are attracted to looks, women are attracted to behavior. From the day you are born into a western society, you are brainwashed and conditioned to believe that women have higher social status, and in order to get the women you want you need to achieve power, money, status and a long list of other things. It is done so through folk tales, cartoons, movies, songs, stories and a myriad of other means. Even your parents and those closest to you often reinforce this notion. Men who spend most of their lifetimes believing this, often apply themselves to get ahead in life and further their careers or gain things that you have listed in your previous post. It is actualy good for overall well being of our civilization, because that is what drives our progress. If this wasnt the case, and beautiful women were avialable to all men, not a whole lot would be achieved.

When men finaly achieve power, status, fame THEY ALLOW THEMSELVES TO FINALY BEHAVE IN A WAY THAT IS ATTRACTIVE TO WOMEN. However, if you are able to shake of the social conditioning and inhibition, and be the man that mother nature has always wanted you to be, YOU CAN BEHAVE IN THIS WAY ALSO, without having to actualy achieve any of it. Women want a man who will protect and provide for their offspring. A masculine man, who knows how to display and demonstrate masculine traits. Of course this is only a tip of the iceberg and easily oversimplified for CD type of debate, with many more angles to look at, but thats REALITY. Try it for a change.
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Old 07-10-2012, 08:35 AM
 
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Ok Bro Bot,




Regardless of how you look and you have already said you are not attractive:


02 Start working out. Regardless of how much it hurts - hit the gym at least four days a week.

03 Get some ink. Nothing major like a full sleeve. Just something on your upper arm that might be partially visible when you are wearing a short sleeve shirt. You sound like a nerd and probably play XBox360 so pic something meaningful to you from one of the games you play like the dude from Halo or a killer dragon


-O

I'm not sure how getting some ink really differentiates this guy or makes him more attractive.
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Old 07-10-2012, 08:41 AM
 
Location: Viña del Mar, Chile
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I'm not sure how getting some ink really differentiates this guy or makes him more attractive.
gym part is good, tattoo.... ehhhh.
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Old 07-10-2012, 08:44 AM
 
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Its alot different for men and women. Women need looks, because thats what men are attracted to. For men, none of those things matter. Consider this. Almost all men, can tell if a woman can be a suitable partner by simply looking at a picture. Almost no women can. its because of the gender roles and womans ability to give birth. Men are attracted to looks, women are attracted to behavior. From the day you are born into a western society, you are brainwashed and conditioned to believe that women have higher social status, and in order to get the women you want you need to achieve power, money, status and a long list of other things. It is done so through folk tales, cartoons, movies, songs, stories and a myriad of other means. Even your parents and those closest to you often reinforce this notion. Men who spend most of their lifetimes believing this, often apply themselves to get ahead in life and further their careers or gain things that you have listed in your previous post. It is actualy good for overall well being of our civilization, because that is what drives our progress. If this wasnt the case, and beautiful women were avialable to all men, not a whole lot would be achieved.

When men finaly achieve power, status, fame THEY ALLOW THEMSELVES TO FINALY BEHAVE IN A WAY THAT IS ATTRACTIVE TO WOMEN. However, if you are able to shake of the social conditioning and inhibition, and be the man that mother nature has always wanted you to be, YOU CAN BEHAVE IN THIS WAY ALSO, without having to actualy achieve any of it. Women want a man who will protect and provide for their offspring. A masculine man, who knows how to display and demonstrate masculine traits. Of course this is only a tip of the iceberg and easily oversimplified for CD type of debate, with many more angles to look at, but thats REALITY. Try it for a change.
sure but is this why the divorce rates is over 50% of the US. that men and women get married because the man has power,status, success.. the woman eventually feels lonely when the man is working 12 hour days to bring home a ton of money. Then the man cheats with a hotter younger woman?
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