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Old 07-10-2012, 08:48 AM
 
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sure but is this why the divorce rates is over 50% of the US. that men and women get married because the man has power,status, success.. the woman eventually feels lonely when the man is working 12 hour days to bring home a ton of money. Then the man cheats with a hotter younger woman?
Women cheat at higher rates than men, FWIW. To be perfectly honest, the fact that its easier for them, may have something to do with it. Cheating isnt gender based, and neither gender should be slammed for it. cheater is a cheater, man or a woman.
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Old 07-10-2012, 08:50 AM
 
Location: NC
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Consider the last 24 hours the last straw for me and dating. I sent about 15 messages to women on a couple of dating sites. Not just hey how are you , but I read through their profiles and found a couple of things we could connect on, but that still isn't enough. Nearly all of them looked at my profile and read my message and not a single response.

I'm facing facts here. I'm not physically attractive. I'm not very interesting. I'm never going to have what a girl wants. I've got to accept it, dating and me are never going to mix.

(Alcohol and frustration are beginning to wear off)

Okay, just what the makes ladies respond to you when you ain't got much that they want?
Go to the gym then. Don't sit on your duff and expect to pull remotely attractive women while you gorge and feast in a slovenly manner.

Improve your fitness, grooming, dress, and study some interesting topics to talk about with women.


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Old 07-10-2012, 08:52 AM
 
Location: New Zealand and Australia
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Go to the gym then. Don't sit on your duff and expect to pull remotely attractive women while you gorge and feast in a slovenly manner.



Classic, thanks enjoyed that
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Old 07-10-2012, 08:52 AM
 
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Women cheat at higher rates than men, FWIW. To be perfectly honest, the fact that its easier for them, may have something to do with it. Cheating isnt gender based, and neither gender should be slammed for it. cheater is a cheater, man or a woman.
sure but what are the reasons behind people cheating? Is it that they feel lonely because their spouse is never around or giving them the attention they need? Is it because they were never truly in love with the person?
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Old 07-10-2012, 08:53 AM
 
Location: Viña del Mar, Chile
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sure but what are the reasons behind people cheating? Is it that they feel lonely because their spouse is never around or giving them the attention they need? Is it because they were never truly in love with the person?
Probably a different reason for every case
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Old 07-10-2012, 08:54 AM
 
Location: NC
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How overweight are you? Can you look down see your johnson?
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Old 07-10-2012, 08:55 AM
 
Location: New Zealand and Australia
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How overweight are you? Can you look down see your johnson?
lol it gets better
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Old 07-10-2012, 09:00 AM
 
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sure but what are the reasons behind people cheating? Is it that they feel lonely because their spouse is never around or giving them the attention they need? Is it because they were never truly in love with the person?
in my opinion, its because their selfish and shallow, but Im only guessing since Ive never cheated on my SO despite many attractive opportunities. I have been cheated on, but never seeked an answer as to why, simply picked up and left.
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Old 07-10-2012, 09:00 AM
 
Location: Corydon, IN
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Consider the last 24 hours the last straw for me and dating. I sent about 15 messages to women on a couple of dating sites. Not just hey how are you , but I read through their profiles and found a couple of things we could connect on, but that still isn't enough. Nearly all of them looked at my profile and read my message and not a single response.

I'm facing facts here. I'm not physically attractive. I'm not very interesting. I'm never going to have what a girl wants. I've got to accept it, dating and me are never going to mix.

(Alcohol and frustration are beginning to wear off)

Okay, just what the makes ladies respond to you when you ain't got much that they want?




If you're done, who cares? Apparently you're NOT done, so let me tell you one thing women don't like: Adamant declarations of defeatist requiescence, arms a-waving in frustration and resentment.
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Old 07-10-2012, 09:04 AM
 
Location: On the corner of Grey Street
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If you're done, who cares? Apparently you're NOT done, so let me tell you one thing women don't like: Adamant declarations of defeatist requiescence, arms a-waving in frustration and resentment.
This is true. I was chatting with a guy I met online once and he was complaining about his horrible dating luck and how women always dump him. Yuck. What a turn off. Everyone has stories of heartbreak and disappointment, but get to know the person before you start with that stuff.
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