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Old 07-10-2012, 03:28 PM
 
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Dating muscular guys is fine, but be prepared to get cheated on as muscular guys (even if broke) often have a ton of options. From personal experience, I know of a few bodybuilder/fitness model type guys and they get offers from women all the time with almost no effort.
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Old 07-10-2012, 03:48 PM
 
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Dating muscular guys is fine, but be prepared to get cheated on as muscular guys (even if broke) often have a ton of options. From personal experience, I know of a few bodybuilder/fitness model type guys and they get offers from women all the time with almost no effort.
Another generalization. Cheating is something all types of men do. Granted, its probably more available and easier for fit men vs. fat men or scrawny men. Regardless, I think its a stereotype. Do you feel the same way about women who are fit?
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Old 07-10-2012, 03:55 PM
 
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According to British scientists: Science Says: Don't Date Muscular Guys! | Love + Sex - Yahoo! Shine#_=


What a load of bull. So ladies, how fat should I get for you all to become attracted to me?
A British scientists opinion. Oh lord how I value that.
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Old 07-10-2012, 03:56 PM
 
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Dating muscular guys is fine, but be prepared to get cheated on as muscular guys (even if broke) often have a ton of options. From personal experience, I know of a few bodybuilder/fitness model type guys and they get offers from women all the time with almost no effort.
If a guy is truly committed to his SO, he'll stay faithful regardless of what he looks like. People should be in control of their actions.
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Old 07-10-2012, 03:58 PM
 
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While I never actually dated a muscular guy, my best FWB was pretty muscular (weight lifted his whole life-now 49) and he was GREAT to be with. Had the stamina for HOURS.
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Old 07-10-2012, 04:00 PM
 
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Women who trash muscled guys are a perfect example of cognitive dissonance. Since they can't get one to commit to them, they get sour grapes syndrome and say they never really liked muscular guys.
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Old 07-10-2012, 04:01 PM
 
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Another generalization. Cheating is something all types of men do. Granted, its probably more available and easier for fit men vs. fat men or scrawny men. Regardless, I think its a stereotype. Do you feel the same way about women who are fit?
As Chris Rock would say: "A man is as faithful as his options"
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Old 07-10-2012, 04:15 PM
 
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Dating muscular guys is fine, but be prepared to get cheated on as muscular guys (even if broke) often have a ton of options. From personal experience, I know of a few bodybuilder/fitness model type guys and they get offers from women all the time with almost no effort.
I had a co-worker who had a great, muscular body and an attractive face to match and he got married when he was around 25. I assume he's faithful to his wife because what would have been the point of marrying her so young if he still wanted to have sex with other women? I'm sure he gets attention from women all the time, but he chose to actually make a commitment to someone, so even though he probably has opportunities to cheat, that doesn't mean that he will.

Or maybe I just don't think the way men do.
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Old 07-10-2012, 04:23 PM
 
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If a guy is truly committed to his SO, he'll stay faithful regardless of what he looks like. People should be in control of their actions.
Easier said than done.
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Old 07-10-2012, 04:27 PM
 
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Women who trash muscled guys are a perfect example of cognitive dissonance. Since they can't get one to commit to them, they get sour grapes syndrome and say they never really liked muscular guys.
I'm not so sure of this. I have been in relationships with men like this, and one was a very long term one. Quite sure I don't have conflicting thoughts about them.

I also know overweight jerks. I can be attracted to either, I suppose. I do know that the ones body just felt so fake. I was not attracted to that most certainly, nor was I attracted to his thought that my friends should be jealous because I had a man such as himself.

I can do without that...all day long.
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