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Old 08-28-2014, 10:41 AM
 
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So I'm 20 years old I've been talking to an older man 40 years. We text hang out but just to exercise he asked me to his house we drank some shakes and he showed me around his house. What does that mean? Is he interested in me or he just wants a friend?
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Old 08-28-2014, 10:42 AM
 
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Just to "exercise"??

He is interested in you. Men don't make overtures like that for friendship.
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Old 08-28-2014, 10:43 AM
 
Location: SoCal again
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did you get reeeeally tired after the "shakes" and woke up with a sore butt?

A 40 year old who is interested in a 20 year old in any way, sexual or not, usually has issues. Why not hang out with people your age?
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Old 08-28-2014, 10:50 AM
 
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did you get reeeeally tired after the "shakes" and woke up with a sore butt?

A 40 year old who is interested in a 20 year old in any way, sexual or not, usually has issues. Why not hang out with people your age?
hahahaha
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Old 08-28-2014, 11:07 AM
 
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did you get reeeeally tired after the "shakes" and woke up with a sore butt?

A 40 year old who is interested in a 20 year old in any way, sexual or not, usually has issues. Why not hang out with people your age?
What issues are those? I know when I turn 40 I'll still be interested in 20 year old women, what's wrong with that?
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Old 08-28-2014, 11:30 AM
 
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What issues are those? I know when I turn 40 I'll still be interested in 20 year old women, what's wrong with that?
No you won't. You just think that now. When you are 40, 20 year olds of any gender will seem like children to you. You will even call them 'kids' when you are talking to your friends -- not as a put down, but just the way you call 6 year olds 'kids' now -- because that's what they are, in your mind.

If you are normal and emotionally stable, anyway .
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Old 08-28-2014, 11:36 AM
 
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So I'm 20 years old I've been talking to an older man 40 years. We text hang out but just to exercise he asked me to his house we drank some shakes and he showed me around his house. What does that mean? Is he interested in me or he just wants a friend?
I'm sure he just wants to be "friends."
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Old 08-28-2014, 11:38 AM
 
Location: RI, MA, VT, WI, IL, CA, IN (that one sucked), KY
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What issues are those? I know when I turn 40 I'll still be interested in 20 year old women, what's wrong with that?

I thought I would be too. Trust me, I'm not. Can't tell a 20 yo from a 15 yo. They're all little kids now.

Time changes things.

Last edited by timberline742; 08-28-2014 at 11:38 AM.. Reason: What Nila said
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Old 08-28-2014, 11:44 AM
 
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did you get reeeeally tired after the "shakes" and woke up with a sore butt?

A 40 year old who is interested in a 20 year old in any way, sexual or not, usually has issues. Why not hang out with people your age?
I agree. It borders on pervy.
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Old 08-28-2014, 11:55 AM
 
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No you won't. You just think that now. When you are 40, 20 year olds of any gender will seem like children to you. You will even call them 'kids' when you are talking to your friends -- not as a put down, but just the way you call 6 year olds 'kids' now -- because that's what they are, in your mind.

If you are normal and emotionally stable, anyway .
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I thought I would be too. Trust me, I'm not. Can't tell a 20 yo from a 15 yo. They're all little kids now.

Time changes things.
I'm not saying they're smart or interesting or that I would want a relationship with one, I'm saying I'll still be physically attracted to them.

Hell, there are exceptions and fortunately I know some but most women of any age aren't very smart or interesting anyway.
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