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There is this person I have worked with off and on for the past ten years. About 8 years ago we were flirting pretty hot and heavy on a regular basis. We even made out a few times but it didnt go any further than that. About two months ago she approached me again about hanging out and mentioned how she missed the way we used to interact. So we have been flirting pretty consistently since then. I asked her what would have happened a few years back if I would have tried anything physical and she said we probably would have gotten pretty physical (what can I say, back then I was shy). I point blank asked what she had in mind this time around and she told me whatever happens, happens and that she wasnt going into this with anything specific in mind. There are some other details that I may be leaving out (like she told me she fantasizes about me). So, my question to anyone reading is... Since she persuded me, and told me all this should I make a move when we hang out next or wait for her to? Last time I waited for her to make a move nothing happened and, like I said before, If I would have tried something would have happened. How should I take her whatever happens, happens comment? Any opinions would be welcome, there is really no one I know that I would feel comfortable discussing this with.
Lets see.......she approached you....and said,"whatever happens, happens."
That tells me...that yes. You need to ask her out, and stop worrying so much. Have fun!!
One day at a time.
There is this person I have worked with off and on for the past ten years. About 8 years ago we were flirting pretty hot and heavy on a regular basis. We even made out a few times but it didnt go any further than that. About two months ago she approached me again about hanging out and mentioned how she missed the way we used to interact. So we have been flirting pretty consistently since then. I asked her what would have happened a few years back if I would have tried anything physical and she said we probably would have gotten pretty physical (what can I say, back then I was shy). I point blank asked what she had in mind this time around and she told me whatever happens, happens and that she wasnt going into this with anything specific in mind. There are some other details that I may be leaving out (like she told me she fantasizes about me). So, my question to anyone reading is... Since she persuded me, and told me all this should I make a move when we hang out next or wait for her to? Last time I waited for her to make a move nothing happened and, like I said before, If I would have tried something would have happened. How should I take her whatever happens, happens comment? Any opinions would be welcome, there is really no one I know that I would feel comfortable discussing this with.
Whatever happens happens to happen if it happened when it happened then it would have happened to make you happy.
dear god
She wants to have sex with you. She wants you to initiate. Have fun, and if you need someone to light a firecracker in your behind, sorry, I am not available. You have to find your forward drive yourself.
Go ahead and pursue her, man. Grab your second chance by the horns.
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