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well if the good looking/attractive men aren't interested in you also if they tend to pay more attention to your female friends (that you consider to be less attractive then you) that should give you a clue as to where you fall.
Possibly, but it could be the female friends don't have a crappy attitude.
I have had a few female friends through the years who get hit on more than 'hotter' girls because they give off a more welcoming vibe. Many guys will pass on the hot girl with the snotty look on her face and go for the cute girl with personality.
Of course, I do have a few female friends who think that guys don't hit on them because they are intimidated, but that's a whole other story.
Possibly, but it could be the female friends don't have a crappy attitude.
I have had a few female friends through the years who get hit on more than 'hotter' girls because they give off a more welcoming vibe. Many guys will pass on the hot girl with the snotty look on her face and go for the cute girl with personality.
Of course, I do have a few female friends who think that guys don't hit on them because they are intimidated, but that's a whole other story.
that is the excuse given on CD all the time. It wasn't fooling me yesterday and it's not fooling me today. Whatever. They will date the 'bitc*y nice looking girl' over the 'fat really FRIENDLY girl' any day of the week. Only on here do they make it out to be that these nice looking women with sh*ty attitudes sit home alone because guys don't want them. Yea right.
that is the excuse given on CD all the time. It wasn't fooling me yesterday and it's not fooling me today. Whatever. They will date the 'bitc*y nice looking girl' over the 'fat really FRIENDLY girl' any day of the week. Only on here do they make it out to be that these nice looking women with sh*ty attitudes sit home alone because guys don't want them. Yea right.
its not an excuse, its reality dear.
a better term for "nice" girl would be "emotionally balanced". If a woman is sitting home alone, you know what? That's her problem, you aren't entitled to a good relationship but you can work your way towards one (if that's what you want). You can't be a victim of you're own generalizations forever dear.
that is the excuse given on CD all the time. It wasn't fooling me yesterday and it's not fooling me today. Whatever. They will date the 'bitc*y nice looking girl' over the 'fat really FRIENDLY girl' any day of the week. Only on here do they make it out to be that these nice looking women with sh*ty attitudes sit home alone because guys don't want them. Yea right.
I was careful with my wording for a reason.
"Many guys will pass on the hot girl with the snotty look on her face and go for the cute girl with personality."
I didn't say "fat", I said "cute" because you're right...often a guy will go for the snotty hot girl over the friendly fat girl.
It is often harder for an overweight/obese girl in that many guys prefer thinner women. I'm not going to state otherwise. All I'm saying is that, yes, looks are important to men, but attitude can carry a long way.
As I've often said, I have a female friend who is overweight and dates a lot because she gives off a positive vibe. I have a female friend who is overweight (and has a cuter face) who rarely dates because she's an entitled b**ch.
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its not an excuse, its reality dear.
a better term for "nice" girl would be "emotionally balanced". If a woman is sitting home alone, you know what? That's her problem, you aren't entitled to a good relationship but you can work your way towards one (if that's what you want). You can't be a victim of you're own generalizations forever dear.
Since its hard for women to know what league they are in because very good looking men often lower their standards for sex...what are other ways for a woman to know what type of guys are in her league??
League system is made up. I don't believe in it. Others do.
You may find a guy very good looking but others may not.
For girls, it is pretty much standard. If she is pretty then most guys will find her pretty also.
Blow 'em off, Jet. What disgusting jerks, debating it right in front of you. I don't know how you've survived all these years. But it's almost over. I hope things go better in Sacramento and the Bay Area. Give it time.
California is one of the most fittest states in USA and Hollywood is there plus it is the headquarters of plastic surgery.
I would have gotten angry and cursed them out. That's just me.
After reading what you went through it's making me hate men.
Nah, don't do that. Be classy and ignore them.
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Yea right.
That's just me.