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Old 08-06-2012, 09:05 PM
 
Location: Virginia Beach, VA
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"Theoretical"? Is this another one of those fictitious gf threads, like eartmoth has been posting?
I'm going with "yes."
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Old 08-06-2012, 09:05 PM
 
Location: Australia
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"Theoretical"? Is this another one of those fictitious gf threads, like eartmoth has been posting?

Ya think???
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Old 08-06-2012, 09:14 PM
 
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well you should:

Learn to sleep with mentally stable women

Get the hell away from the broad. Her fake attempt to hit you said to me that she was 12.

Learn to choose women to date not based solely on "cuz she'z hott" only.
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Old 08-06-2012, 09:17 PM
 
Location: Columbia, California
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Or women...of maybe all of you just give bad advice. I told you guys about a girl I had bad sex with. For a couple weeks she avoided contact with me. I finally was able to get in contact her and she basically told me she did not truly wanted to have sex with me, she felt violated and doesn't want to be friends. I knew she was lying, it was strictly because I did not perform well, but I just left it like that. Most of you said she has no feelings for me and I should move on.

Fast forward to now, she contacted me once, however I did not pick up the phone. We work at the same building and she invited me to some social event. I did not say a word. While I was going to the garage apparently she made a fake attempt to run me over and gave me a smile. What does this all mean? If she really does not like me and wants nothing to do with me, why is she doing this. Most of you said I should move on but this women is probably the hottest person I slept with. Should I make another attempt or is she just playing games? Women
Sounds to me like she is desperate and figures bad sex with you is better than no sex at all.
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Old 08-06-2012, 09:31 PM
 
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BJones,

Just follow your own advice, man!

//www.city-data.com/forum/relat...ow-golden.html


You have it all figured out already anyway, right? Just call her out. Because we all know when you call out, you CALL OUT!

//www.city-data.com/forum/relat...l#post25236816

I was simply giving advice on what a man needs to do in order to get a date, not past the stage where you already had sex with the girl. When you ask a girl out just ask her once. If she says anything other than a yes, or something along the lines of ask me out this day or try the next time you come in, it means she doesn't like you. If a girl likes you "busy, IDK, maybe, is not in her vocabulary". Basically any lame excuse. If she likes you she will let you know and she might play with you, but she will make sure to make her self available. Example; I asked this one girl out and simply said can I get you number, she told me I have to try harder than that, ask me out next time. Next time I came into the store, said the same thing,she gave me her number.

I really struggle when this happens. They say in order to get a girl you like back is to accept the breakup and don't contact her. So when she starts initiating contact and giving cues that she wants to make it work, when do I give in. I don't want to be hurt again, but this girl is giving me all the signs that she wants to date me again. I was nervous the first time around, because she was hot. When I say hot, I'm saying hot. However the two weeks she avoided contact with me was not fun at all.
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Old 08-06-2012, 09:57 PM
 
Location: State of Transition
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I really struggle when this happens. They say in order to get a girl you like back is to accept the breakup and don't contact her. So when she starts initiating contact and giving cues that she wants to make it work, when do I give in. I don't want to be hurt again, but this girl is giving me all the signs that she wants to date me again. I was nervous the first time around, because she was hot. When I say hot, I'm saying hot. However the two weeks she avoided contact with me was not fun at all.
Approach at your own risk. What more can we say?
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Old 08-06-2012, 10:01 PM
 
Location: Up in the air
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Maybe she's a ninja assassin and she's afraid if she gets too close she'll put you in danger! But then, she realized her feelings for you and she's just not quite sure if it's worth keeping her identity secret from you any longer!

RUN, RUN AWAY, you don't want to get caught up in ninja assassin drama!
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Old 08-06-2012, 10:08 PM
 
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Cool omg...

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I was simply giving advice on what a man needs to do in order to get a date, not past the stage where you already had sex with the girl. When you ask a girl out just ask her once. If she says anything other than a yes, or something along the lines of ask me out this day or try the next time you come in, it means she doesn't like you. If a girl likes you "busy, IDK, maybe, is not in her vocabulary". Basically any lame excuse. If she likes you she will let you know and she might play with you, but she will make sure to make her self available. Example; I asked this one girl out and simply said can I get you number, she told me I have to try harder than that, ask me out next time. Next time I came into the store, said the same thing,she gave me her number.

I really struggle when this happens. They say in order to get a girl you like back is to accept the breakup and don't contact her. So when she starts initiating contact and giving cues that she wants to make it work, when do I give in. I don't want to be hurt again, but this girl is giving me all the signs that she wants to date me again. I was nervous the first time around, because she was hot. When I say hot, I'm saying hot. However the two weeks she avoided contact with me was not fun at all.
who cares....?
K
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Old 08-06-2012, 10:11 PM
 
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shes an fbi agent trying to make you the fall guy for secret government projects..run, RUN!
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Old 08-06-2012, 10:25 PM
 
Location: Up in the air
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shes an fbi agent trying to make you the fall guy for secret government projects..run, RUN!
I think we can combine our conspiracies..

Secret government FBI agent secret assassin?

Oh hell, I'd watch the crap out of that movie.
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