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Old 08-07-2012, 08:24 AM
 
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Why are you worried that your behavior is going to push her away?
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Old 08-07-2012, 08:25 AM
 
Location: Reno, NV
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Perhaps your recent experiments in trying to attract other women made you truly appreciate what you already have. Be happy that there is such a positive result that is a win-win situation. Sure, keep some perspective, but after so many years together you should be able to read any signs that you're smothering her.
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Old 08-07-2012, 08:26 AM
 
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My husband is like that. I get simple "I love you" texts 1-2x /day, he is very affectionate & despite a huge weight gain during our marriage he acts like I'm a Victoria Secret model with the libido of a 15yr old. We've been married 25yrs...keep it up, if it makes you happy, if she makes you happy, show her!
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Old 08-07-2012, 08:36 AM
 
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Why are you worried that your behavior is going to push her away?
I dunno. I suppose that would be the natural reaction to someone who pays too much attention all the time. I could be wrong, I just don't know if I have perspective. I just don't want to smother her or anything.
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Old 08-07-2012, 10:12 AM
 
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I may be the odd person out, but I would find it strange if my husband did this after 20 years. I would want to know what happened to cause it.
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Old 08-07-2012, 10:49 AM
 
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What?! Are you kidding me?!?! I would kill to have a husband like this. Where do I find one?
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Old 08-07-2012, 10:50 AM
 
Location: Whittier
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I don't want to sound grim or anything, but from my vast medical knowledge (WebMD, sarcasm obvs.) maybe you have a tumor? Especially on the right side of the brain. Those cause euphoria.

I've heard that sudden extreme mood changes or feelings can also be a result of altering brain chemistry. Are you currently on a prescription or are taking any OTC drugs?

On another note...

How long have you been married? And do you feel that your wife is "too good" for you?
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Old 08-07-2012, 10:59 AM
 
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I don't want to sound grim or anything, but from my vast medical knowledge (WebMD, sarcasm obvs.) maybe you have a tumor? Especially on the right side of the brain. Those cause euphoria.

I've heard that sudden extreme mood changes or feelings can also be a result of altering brain chemistry. Are you currently on a prescription or are taking any OTC drugs?

On another note...

How long have you been married? And do you feel that your wife is "too good" for you?
Well, I am on a cycle of anabolic steroids right now. It's not my first and I never had this reaction before. I thought of that already, but I see nothing resembling this in any of the anabolic steroids/bodybuilding forums.

No, I don't believe she's "too good" for me. I just want her. I want her next to me, I want to just look at her, I want to make love to her, I want to see her smile, I want to sppon her at night ..

I swear, it's just like a new romance or something.
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Old 08-07-2012, 11:02 AM
 
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What?! Are you kidding me?!?! I would kill to have a husband like this. Where do I find one?
Ok, so no downsides you can think of in telling her this?
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Old 08-07-2012, 11:11 AM
 
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Ok, so no downsides you can think of in telling her this?
Nada.
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