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Old 08-07-2012, 01:50 PM
 
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Ok, I'm going to be speaking with her on the phone soon. I'm pretty sure I know what I'm going to tell her. But if you were her .. what would you want to hear? What would you want to hear from your SO?
We aren't her! You know her best, so speak to the love of your life, from your heart, and you can't go wrong.
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Old 08-07-2012, 01:54 PM
 
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Well, I am on a cycle of anabolic steroids right now. It's not my first and I never had this reaction before. I thought of that already, but I see nothing resembling this in any of the anabolic steroids/bodybuilding forums.

No, I don't believe she's "too good" for me. I just want her. I want her next to me, I want to just look at her, I want to make love to her, I want to see her smile, I want to sppon her at night ..

I swear, it's just like a new romance or something.

Dang, and all I want the rare times I have steroids is ALL the chocolate on the planet.
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Old 08-07-2012, 07:25 PM
 
Location: Up above the world so high!
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Yeah, actually it does sound crazy. I don't know if this is a chemical issue or what. I feel like I can't get enough of her. In the past if we were sitting on the couch together, I'd be happy to be sitting next to her but not holding hands or anything. Now I want her leaning up against me. I want to hold her hand. I just want to feel her next to me.

I want to have sex with her all the time, but it's not just that. I want to have her up close to me as we're lying in bed just so I can feel her skin against mine.


I know she's been enjoying it. But at some point she probably won't care for it too much. Then I texted that I missed her. At that point I wondered if I'm going overboard. I feel now like I need to be careful not to smother her. So I haven't texted or spoken to her all day despite a burning urge to do so. This feels a bit disturbing because I feel ultra vulnerable now.

WTF is wrong with me? Have you guys gone through this? I googled, but all I could find is people asking how to get a spouse to fall in love again - presumably because they can't stand each other.

I feel this way about my husband all the time!

It's a gift, a blessing - don't question it, and certainly don't believe for a second there is something "wrong" with you!
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Old 08-07-2012, 07:33 PM
 
Location: New Jersey
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oh please
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Old 08-07-2012, 07:36 PM
 
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lol
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Old 08-07-2012, 08:17 PM
 
Location: earth?
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Yeah, actually it does sound crazy. I don't know if this is a chemical issue or what. I feel like I can't get enough of her. In the past if we were sitting on the couch together, I'd be happy to be sitting next to her but not holding hands or anything. Now I want her leaning up against me. I want to hold her hand. I just want to feel her next to me.

I want to have sex with her all the time, but it's not just that. I want to have her up close to me as we're lying in bed just so I can feel her skin against mine.

I know she's been enjoying it. But at some point she probably won't care for it too much. Then I texted that I missed her. At that point I wondered if I'm going overboard. I feel now like I need to be careful not to smother her. So I haven't texted or spoken to her all day despite a burning urge to do so. This feels a bit disturbing because I feel ultra vulnerable now.

WTF is wrong with me? Have you guys gone through this? I googled, but all I could find is people asking how to get a spouse to fall in love again - presumably because they can't stand each other.
What do you think is wrong with you? Do you have dependency issues? Are you depressed, going through a difficult time of some sort? You seem to realize this is abnormal and won't go over well after awhile. It seems very needy. Have you seen a therapist? It sounds like a childhood abandonment issue may have been triggered and that you are reaching out for "mommy."
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Old 08-07-2012, 08:21 PM
 
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What do you think is wrong with you? Do you have dependency issues? Are you depressed, going through a difficult time of some sort? You seem to realize this is abnormal and won't go over well after awhile. It seems very needy. Have you seen a therapist? It sounds like a childhood abandonment issue may have been triggered and that you are reaching out for "mommy."
I concur. Love is grand and all. But this just coming out of the blue. Odd indeed
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Old 08-07-2012, 08:52 PM
 
Location: Planet Eaarth
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Yeah, actually it does sound crazy. I don't know if this is a chemical issue or what. I feel like I can't get enough of her. In the past if we were sitting on the couch together, I'd be happy to be sitting next to her but not holding hands or anything. Now I want her leaning up against me. I want to hold her hand. I just want to feel her next to me.

I want to have sex with her all the time, but it's not just that. I want to have her up close to me as we're lying in bed just so I can feel her skin against mine.

I know she's been enjoying it. But at some point she probably won't care for it too much. Then I texted that I missed her. At that point I wondered if I'm going overboard. I feel now like I need to be careful not to smother her. So I haven't texted or spoken to her all day despite a burning urge to do so. This feels a bit disturbing because I feel ultra vulnerable now.

WTF is wrong with me? Have you guys gone through this? I googled, but all I could find is people asking how to get a spouse to fall in love again - presumably because they can't stand each other.
Don't look now dude but nature has your gas burner on overload!

Chill back some you'll live.
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Old 08-07-2012, 09:10 PM
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Location: Eastern Oregon
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oh please
I'm pretty sure you can find a reason to rain on anyone's parade. Maybe next, you can find a thread about someone surviving cancer that you can roll your eyes at too?
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Old 08-07-2012, 09:24 PM
 
Location: a primitive state
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Maybe it's your hormones. Men go through changes, too. I've read that they actually become more loving and affectionate.

Sound familiar?
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