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Nah, I don't care what you're doing, if you haven't opened yourself up to it, relaxed, let go, its not going to be as enjoyable. I haven't noticed any of your stuff here but the impression I have reading this thread brings to mind the Aesop fable where the fox eyes the grapes and imagines how tasty they will be but when he cant reach them he then says they are not ripe.
Women are different. Some feel less than others from sex. So it doesn't matter how much they relax or open up
Just a matter of luck. You don't know how a guy is going to be in bed until you have sex with him
Not true at all. The fooling around beforehand is usually a pretty good indicator - you can judge their level of attentiveness, openness to changing things up, responsiveness, etc. I'm not shy about talking about sex either. I'm usually pretty well-informed by the time I end up sleeping with someone. I'm not exactly conducting market research, but I'm observing.
As a male - I don't care whether a woman has an orgasm or not..What I have discovered is that some woman are so self conscious during sex that they create a metal block- Orgasm is your responsibility, not your partners. If a woman's mind if full of irrelevant thoughts during sex like- I am too fat- I don't feel attractive- oh my God he is going to hear me moan and make noise- I am so embarrassed...or...they have a tad too much bitterness....
Never met a woman who was relaxed and comfortable with herself who had trouble reaching orgasm. RELAX...enjoy yourself.
Why doesn't this surprise me? From the same person who is threated by vibrators. THIS is why people use them.
What you said was true for you. You have a vagina. That doesn't mean you know anything about anyone else's. I can assure you, my moaning is not fake.
it's true for a lot of women, not just me. I know online everyone likes to fabricate how great their sex lives are and how they can have so many orgasms. it's misleading
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I can assure you, my moaning is not fake.
it probably is
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If you can't make your partner reach orgasm.... it is not a good basis for relationship.
it can work if they have an understanding that it doesn't matter
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