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I wouldn't hold it against him if he hadn't, but I worry if a guy hasn't really had that wild period that he might be unhappy in the long run always being in a relationship.
I've dated a few guys who didn't go through the *uck everything that walks, drink to you cant see straight, party (sowed wild oats) phase. It confused me. But some men (people) are completely satisfied not going through that phase at all. There were a few men I dated who only had sex/kissed girls when in monogamous committed relationships and never had a one night stand in their life.
There is not one right answer which is universal for everyone. Some people at certain stages are not ready to settle down and be faithful. Doing so would not be good for them or their relationship. Others may be. These people can mingle too and be very happy.
I never sowed wild oats. Wasn't interested in trying to bed tons of women. In my life, I have been with one woman, who is now my wife. I wouldn't have it any other way. (and no, we did not wait until after we were married). My wife on the other hand was very active when she was younger. Admits it was not so much to sow oats, as it was to try and feel wanted, and was willing to give it up to get guys interested in her. Of course, they were just interested in using her.... but thats another thread. We're both extremely happy together!
No wild oats sown here and don't plan on it. Never been into it. I sow wild oats in my relationship and that's about it. I give the best wild side of me to the man I love (if you know what I mean) and whom also loves me. No need to do it with multiple men. For what? Validation? Don't need it. Men approaching me is enough, but I am certainly not handing over my p@nties because of it. I value myself a lot though.
I have never sowed wild oats...I never will; there is no reason or personal desire on my part for me to. I only want one woman to love, honor, and cherish, for life, and anyway I am a one-woman man only, so not sure why would I need to sow wild oats, to begin with? JMHO tho, others can do what makes them the most happy...
Still sowing here! I enjoy being wild and free but sometimes it gets lonely. I dated a girl for a while recently and had to break it off. Not only did I not feel a true connection, but I also kind of missed the single life.
I think I need to get it out of my system before I am ready. I'm not a super man *****, but I am definitely no virgin either. I am an opportunist who likes to have fun.
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Until your 40 years old, single, and going to clubs trying to pick up men/women half your age.
By that time I will have either moved on to pursuing one of my serious interests all the time on weekends like hunting, fishing, or photography.
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JMHO tho, others can do what makes them the most happy...
