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Ugh. Ex boyfriends that try to convince you to CHEAT ON YOUR BOYFRIEND are scum. He can't stop thinking about me and is begging me to come over. This isn't even a new development from this particular ex- or others! He tries to convince me he'll just "take care of my needs" while BF is away (bf lives in another state and visits every 3-4 weeks). Told him I have no need or interest for a f-buddy, I value the love my bf gives me in lieu of casual sex....and he kept acting like he didn't hear me and kept going on about "come over. We should make it a fantasy!"
I went to sleep while he was going on and on cuz I was disgusted. This has happened several times over the years with many exes. Do they think women are stupid? Do they really think we don't see through them? Ugh!
I'd cut all ties with this man. He doesn't need to be in your life and is obviously no good to you or any woman. He sees no issue with cheating, so he's more likely to just sleep around whenever and where ever he sees fit. For the sake of your relationship, block his calls and try to avoid him.
Ugh. Ex boyfriends that try to convince you to CHEAT ON YOUR BOYFRIEND are scum. He can't stop thinking about me and is begging me to come over. This isn't even a new development from this particular ex- or others! He tries to convince me he'll just "take care of my needs" while BF is away (bf lives in another state and visits every 3-4 weeks). Told him I have no need or interest for a f-buddy, I value the love my bf gives me in lieu of casual sex....and he kept acting like he didn't hear me and kept going on about "come over. We should make it a fantasy!"
I went to sleep while he was going on and on cuz I was disgusted. This has happened several times over the years with many exes. Do they think women are stupid? Do they really think we don't see through them? Ugh!
You "went to sleep while he was going on and on"??
If you were spending any time with him on the phone - why?
If you were spending any time in his physical presence - WHY????
No he was texting me. I turned off the phone while he was still sending messages and fell asleep. He's already blocked again, but I just felt like posting because it's pretty common....why do they always come back and act as if you've forgotten why they were an ex?
No he was texting me. I turned off the phone while he was still sending messages and fell asleep. He's already blocked again, but I just felt like posting because it's pretty common....why do they always come back and act as if you've forgotten why they were an ex?
Why they do it is because some guys figure they have nothing to lose by trying.
Cut him out of your life totally. Make sure he cannot text or call you and if he manages to get your number somewhere else refuse to respond other than to say "get lost".
The first thing I thought was "Where in his mind did he ever think it was ok to ask me this?". Like he literally came out of the blue with "So how about we do just sex?" and my first visceral response was "Um, no thanks." Thought that was the end of it until he started texting repeatedly, giving me details of this fantasy he had going on in his head about us. Then the phone went off. Block in place. Guy has balls.
Ugh. Ex boyfriends that try to convince you to CHEAT ON YOUR BOYFRIEND are scum. He can't stop thinking about me and is begging me to come over. This isn't even a new development from this particular ex- or others! He tries to convince me he'll just "take care of my needs" while BF is away (bf lives in another state and visits every 3-4 weeks). Told him I have no need or interest for a f-buddy, I value the love my bf gives me in lieu of casual sex....and he kept acting like he didn't hear me and kept going on about "come over. We should make it a fantasy!"
I went to sleep while he was going on and on cuz I was disgusted. This has happened several times over the years with many exes. Do they think women are stupid? Do they really think we don't see through them? Ugh!
So block him and all the others you don't want to hear from already OR leave them unblocked and quit whining about them contacting you.
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He's already blocked again, but I just felt like posting because it's pretty common....why do they always come back and act as if you've forgotten why they were an ex?
