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Old 08-09-2012, 02:03 PM
 
Location: Katonah, NY
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And men understand this, but the majority of men are forced to pay child support by women who have taken them to court even though they have never abandoned their financial obligations.

For example, my buddy offered to pay for anything his child needs and all he wanted was his x wife to show him receipts, but she refused and simply took him to court.
And many men skip out on their children all together. It's always the few that ruin it for the many. That's just life. What can we take away from this? Be very careful when choosing a partner. Not ALL women and not ALL men are bad.

 
Old 08-09-2012, 02:06 PM
 
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And many men skip out on their children all together. It's always the few that ruin it for the many. That's just life. What can we take away from this? Be very careful when choosing a partner. Not ALL women and not ALL men are bad.

Men have a lot more to loose when a marriage (with or without kids) heads south.
 
Old 08-09-2012, 02:08 PM
 
Location: Columbus, Ohio
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Lightbulb LOL...Dewdrop...SHHHHH...Ixnay!

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And many men skip out on their children all together. It's always the few that ruin it for the many. That's just life. What can we take away from this? Be very careful when choosing a partner. Not ALL women and not ALL men are bad.
Don't say that too loudly around here---you'll erase some folks sole reason for posting...ya know the 'ALL men are this!---Oh yeah? Sez you! ALL women are that!' usual running nightly and daily b***hfest
 
Old 08-09-2012, 02:08 PM
 
Location: Katonah, NY
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Men have a lot more to loose when a marriage (with or without kids) heads south.
Then why do most of them get married again?
 
Old 08-09-2012, 02:09 PM
 
Location: Pittsburgh
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Men have a lot more to loose when a marriage (with or without kids) heads south.
What more do they have to lose? No one wins in a divorce, really.
 
Old 08-09-2012, 02:10 PM
 
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Then why do most of them get married again?
Oh Dewdrop, you know those evil, manipulative, money-hungry American women MAKE them do it
 
Old 08-09-2012, 02:13 PM
 
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Then why do most of them get married again?
Young men get married because not only are they unaware of the laws, but they are inculcated by society that getting married is an important milestone in life.
 
Old 08-09-2012, 02:15 PM
 
Location: 89434
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Beating someone to death and claiming self defense? What the hell are you watching?
I read it in a book once
 
Old 08-09-2012, 02:15 PM
 
Location: Katonah, NY
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Young men get married because not only are they unaware of the laws, but they are inculcated by society that getting married is an important milestone in life.
No - why do they get married AGAIN? If divorce is sooooo bad and ruins men forever - then why do so many of them do it AGAIN?
 
Old 08-09-2012, 02:16 PM
 
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What more do they have to lose?
Money, shelter and businesses that they will need to sustain themselves. They can also loose their freedom.

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No one wins in a divorce, really.
I'm not so sure that I can agree because some people really need to get away from their toxic partner and it's for the better.
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