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Old 08-11-2012, 03:03 PM
 
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Another option is to post it here. We all can determine if he has a hidden agenda with that particular photo (but only if he's hot!)
I like this idea
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Old 08-11-2012, 03:49 PM
 
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You can ignore it if you want. But I wonder if that silence might not be a sort of acceptance to someone who's got a crush. A "What's up with that? Did you mean to send that elsewhere?" text might be a good way of indirectly indicating it wasn't anything you were hoping to get and that there are no hopes in that direction for him. Or possibly opening up a conversation that needs to be had.
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Old 08-11-2012, 03:50 PM
 
Location: So Cal
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How "sexy"

Was it a pic of his stuff???
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Old 08-11-2012, 03:54 PM
 
Location: :~)
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As a guy, i know that you must tell him directly. We are like Jim Carrey in Dumb and Dumber, if we think that there's a chance, even a slight change, we will continue to try. Tell directly. Otherwise, expect to see another picture.
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Old 08-11-2012, 04:00 PM
 
Location: NYC
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personally i'd ignore it and not communicate back in any way

he already knows you're not available, why bother explaining it again? if he cared he would have listened the first time

utter silence can be quite effective (but ruined if you make any kind of reply at all)

or just egg him on and post all the pics here for the lulz, as has been suggested
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Old 08-11-2012, 05:40 PM
 
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Haha. Ok well I am not going to post his pic so sorry to dissapoint! It is not actually of his piece but it is just provocative. I am married and he knows my husband. Not sure if it was an accident or what. I had finished a conversation with him about an hour earlier. I went with the "ignore it" because laughing/joking about it seemed either harsh or encouraging, but I hope that's not giving the wrong idea either. Maybe bringing it up casually would be good. Thanks for the input.
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Old 08-11-2012, 05:49 PM
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Location: Eastern Oregon
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Ask him if that's all he's got?
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Old 08-11-2012, 05:56 PM
 
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I usually respond with a sexy pic of my own.
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Old 08-11-2012, 05:56 PM
 
Location: Lower east side of Toronto
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You wrote- "Received a sexy photo of THEM".. What do you mean by THEM ...is it a photo of two people?
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Old 08-11-2012, 05:57 PM
 
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LOL. I know what you should do: Send back a sexy photo of your husband/boyfriend
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