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a FWB is not supposed to be anywhere near a family event. As a male why would I want to meet a guy who my cousin or mom is just SCREWING? Do you not understand what i;m trying to explain to you?
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Originally Posted by TVandSportsGuy
So I was like.....WOW, you just never know who is connected to who in this world. Basically everyone in 2012 is sleeping around with everyone so it's no point in taking dating seriously anymore.
If bolded is true, why haven't I gotten on the action?
a FWB is not supposed to be anywhere near a family event. As a male why would I want to meet a guy who my cousin or mom is just SCREWING? Do you not understand what i;m trying to explain to you?
a FWB is not supposed to be anywhere near a family event. As a male why would I want to meet a guy who my cousin or mom is just SCREWING? Do you not understand what i;m trying to explain to you?
You are forgetting the 'friends' part in FWB. Otherwise it would just be called Benefits, serial one night stands, a booty call or a hooker.
"if you meet a guy who is great looking and fun to be with and has all the qualities you seek in a man, he is likely going to have several women who feel the same way about him the way you do"
a FWB is not supposed to be anywhere near a family event. As a male why would I want to meet a guy who my cousin or mom is just SCREWING? Do you not understand what i;m trying to explain to you?
TV..we get it. But, not everyone is YOU. Just because YOU wouldnt bring someone to a family outing unless it was exclusive, thats YOU. Hell, Ive seen MARRIED people bring their flings to events that you wouldnt think they would bring them to. Maybe not family events..but you get what im trying to say. Besides, maybe the guy just wanted to bring the girl along. Plus..you keep saying FWB. They could be in the 'getting to know you stage' not just sex buddies.
The fact is, people shouldnt assume that because you go to say a family picnic or something and have a couple of hot dogs and burgers that this means you are now part of the family. I have a good looking cousin who has done that. One month we met one girl at some get together..the next month we met another different girl. LOL
People should NEVER ASSUME they are exclusive until it has been made clear that both people are on the same page. Folks may wind up with their feelings hurt.
"if you meet a guy who is great looking and fun to be with and has all the qualities you seek in a man, he is likely going to have several women who feel the same way about him the way you do"
TV..we get it. But, not everyone is YOU. Just because YOU wouldnt bring someone to a family outing unless it was exclusive, thats YOU. Hell, Ive seen MARRIED people bring their flings to events that you wouldnt think they would bring them to. Maybe not family events..but you get what im trying to say. Besides, maybe the guy just wanted to bring the girl along. Plus..you keep saying FWB. They could be in the 'getting to know you stage' not just sex buddies.
The fact is, people shouldnt assume that because you go to say a family picnic or something and have a couple of hot dogs and burgers that this means you are now part of the family. I have a good looking cousin who has done that. One month we met one girl at some get together..the next month we met another different girl. LOL
People should NEVER ASSUME they are exclusive until it has been made clear that both people are on the same page. Folks may wind up with their feelings hurt.
She invited me to his house to watch a basketball game so right there I figured it was serious
a FWB is not supposed to be anywhere near a family event. As a male why would I want to meet a guy who my cousin or mom is just SCREWING? Do you not understand what i;m trying to explain to you?
Maybe the 'F' in this case means family, i.e. Family With Benefits.
[it's a group thing - hee hee ]
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