I throw myself at the mercy of these boards.

[NotARedneck]

Originally Posted by dub dub II

I throw myself at the mercy of these boards.

It helps to have a thick hide for a guy to post on this site.

Most of the comments from females are typical of what I have encountered in real life - from women my age.

From one side of the mouth: "You are so useless and clueless. What woman would lower herself to your level."

From the other side: "Why aren't you putting yourself out there. There are so many needy women out there who need a man!"

It is always about someone else. Never them.

[lovesMountains]

Originally Posted by Wmsn4Life

Believe it or not, this isn't actually the answer for every post on this thread.

Dub, honey, you are too much in your head.

You need to look outward for a change, and "do" for others. Read what lovesmtns wrote. You need to SHOW love (humanly, not necessarily romantic) for others by doing for others and get your mind off yourself.

I hope he comes back and sees this

[lovesMountains]

Originally Posted by 1208

I would suggest you get off the computer and take up a hobby or a personal challenge.

Maybe he took your advice, because he sure hasn't come back to this thread, lol!

[1208]

That's about all I could think of...dude's a mess. Gotta start with first things first.