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Old 08-14-2012, 08:58 PM
 
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I personally find that most people I ask are pretty truthful. And if they have cheated they always give a reason why.
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Old 08-14-2012, 09:00 PM
 
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No. In my experience, she saying "I'll never cheat." Has been a blatant lie.
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Old 08-14-2012, 09:04 PM
 
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I've never cheated. If a guy doesn't believe me, that's his problem.
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Old 08-14-2012, 09:13 PM
 
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Frankly, it wouldn't even occur to me to ask someone that question.
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Old 08-14-2012, 09:15 PM
 
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I've never cheated. If a guy doesn't believe me, that's his problem.
Lol. Spinx, I don't know why you are so hilarious to me. "that's his problem"

To the OP, I don't ask the question bc it's not a question who's answer you can typically rely on. But, I have never cheated. I will be honest-- I got really damn close one time. But I never did, and have not even come that close to this day. On this one I will never say "never" because I've seen the most well meaning people cheat and I am above noone. But I pray to God I never do as it would weight heavy on my mind.

Hell I was messed up momentarily after almost getting there and I had not even touched the guy I just realized that I was having feelings that were not ok for a committed woman to experience with another man.
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Old 08-14-2012, 09:17 PM
 
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Frankly, it wouldn't even occur to me to ask someone that question.
It really shouldn't be a question you directly ask someone, but it's come up in coversation every time that topic came up. I always said it first and bring up my reason, then she would agree and say something like "Oh I never cheat"

It's happened twice, and both times I got burned lol.
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Old 08-14-2012, 09:19 PM
 
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Ive never cheated on my SO. If I did, i'd say so.
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Old 08-14-2012, 09:40 PM
 
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Lol. Spinx, I don't know why you are so hilarious to me. "that's his problem"
I just get irritated when I run into guys who think because they were cheated on previously, I'm going to do the same. I'm not going to waste time proving myself innocent of something I'm not even guilty of, you know.

Just the title of this thread is irksome.
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Old 08-14-2012, 09:41 PM
 
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Do you believe someone when they say they've never cheated on anyone?
I do.

[because I haven't]
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Old 08-14-2012, 09:49 PM
 
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I just get irritated when I run into guys who think because they were cheated on previously, I'm going to do the same. I'm not going to waste time proving myself innocent of something I'm not even guilty of, you know.

Just the title of this thread is irksome.
Lol spinx but so true. If a guy asks and he doesn't believe me, it would be best for him not to tell me so. I understand having doubts early on when getting to know someone, but if those doubts are so strong that you have to tell me that you don't believe me, or even show me, I am turned off. That is a clear sign to me that that person is not ready for a relationship with me.

I'm not going to work to prove anything due to another woman's mess.

I was cheated on one time that I know of. It hurt like hell but I will not take that into my next relationship.
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