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Every single "nice guy" will lose out to all bad boys, ex-cons, football players and whoever else is not considered a nice guy. Let's face it, not a single woman in the world cares for nice guys and will always pass over him for someone with a criminal record. I feel bad for these so called "nice guys".
That is SUCH a crock. I wouldn't touch a bad boy/ex-con with a ten foot pole! C'mon!
I've said it several times before: it's not nice guys that finish last, it's passive guys that finish last. I'm a nice guy, but when it comes to women I take charge, and that is why I have such a high level of success. I cannot bring myself to be disrespectful to a woman or treat her like garbage, so I play to my strengths; I charm them and I bring out my sensitive side. Most importantly, I show that I am the alpha male and take charge, and that's what women respond to the most.
just like passive women will lose out to ones that go after what they want
I'm not passive, but I don't chase guys...some of us are still old-fashioned about that. If a guy is interested and is man enough to show it, then I will definitely let him know if I am or not.
I'm not passive, but I don't chase guys...some of us are still old-fashioned about that. If a guy is interested and is man enough to show it, then I will definitely let him know if I am or not.
i wasnt directing it at u but in general women who sit back and wait for the guy to initiate everything will be like the passive guy. If you see someone that u are interested in out somewhere, your just gonna wait until they approach you if they even do? I dont chase girls. I will initiate but im not going to chase after a girl because she wants to be chased. The dating scene is drastically different then it was years ago.
right.....that sounds very plausible. Women simply love feminine, weak, compassionate and sensitive guys. Were the women in question lesbian wanting to experiment, by chance? =)
I say it's high time you quit this ridiculous 'thinking in absolutes', aka 'thinking solely in black and white'. No where did Knight2009 say that ALL women love feminine, etc. guys.
Some women are attracted to sensitive men. Some women are not. That's life. That's reality.
i wasnt directing it at u but in general women who sit back and wait for the guy to initiate everything will be like the passive guy. If you see someone that u are interested in out somewhere, your just gonna wait until they approach you if they even do? I dont chase girls. I will initiate but im not going to chase after a girl because she wants to be chased. The dating scene is drastically different then it was years ago.
Not necessarily....I've noticed the passive women get far more attention because they're 'mysterious' and playing hard to get. The women who sit up and take charge are seen as 'domineering and desperate'.
Women are supposed to be passive (which I think is bull) and calm, they're supposed to be the ones who are being chased. At least, that's been my experience.
Nice guys only finish last if they settle for being last. Its those who have no sense of self worth and would rather please the majority in fear of being ridiculed that truly finish last.
We (nice guys) don't finish last...we just finish later than most...
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