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Yes its selfish too when married couples have kids they have a difficult time supporting. If you are going to have kids, plan it out and make sure you can live comfortably with them.
No, she's the stupid person. Manipulative, too. I think it's an even bigger problem when these "deliberate" single moms miss the "coin toss," and end up with a son.
So what if the child is male. I raised two sons just fine on my own and contrary to what some types of people believe they did not "turn out gay" or have any type of emotional problems. Actually they are about as "manly" as a man can be.
A friend of mine went the sperm bank route when she hit 35 and realized that she probably wasn't meet Mr. Right, but she didn't want to give up on being a mother. She moved closer to her family, and she was completely happy with her decision. About a year after her son was born she met a man who's now her husband.
Yes its selfish too when married couples have kids they have a difficult time supporting. If you are going to have kids, plan it out and make sure you can live comfortably with them.
Life isnt black and white. It would be nice if all our plans panned out but I have learned the reality of life is you cant really count on your plans. At any time something outside our contol can change the course of our lives.
While I agree that's a stretch I would say it's more around 100k for the first 18 years. You should know they are very expensive and money a lot of people can't justify themselves losing.
So thats like 6K a year, $500 a month or $125 a week or $18/day. I guess that sounds about right averaged out over 18 yrs. from diapers to gas money.
Life isnt black and white. It would be nice if all our plans panned out but I have learned the reality of life is you cant really count on your plans. At any time something outside our contol can change the course of our lives.
And thats why you plan for the unforeseen. Maybe you can't plan something like cancer, but you can plan for the other 98% of scenarios.
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