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Old 08-17-2012, 08:18 PM
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Interest shown leading up to the date? Now I have a date scheduled tomorrow with this girl and the last time we talked was Tuesday. I called last night and she didn't pick up and so far I heard nothing tonight. Now since I;m expected to pay am I supposed to reach her to out again when she didn't pick up the last call?

I mean if I;m going to spend money on someone shouldn't I feel that she is looking for to meeting me rather than just going out because it's just something to do?


I will not call or text her tomorrow if I hear nothing tonight. I;m already in the process of making other plans.


Guys what do you think of this?

 
Old 08-17-2012, 08:51 PM
 
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You can come up with the strangest excuses for breaking dates.

What does paying for a date have to do with who calls first or last?
 
Old 08-17-2012, 08:53 PM
 
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I think you're being a little dramatic, but yeah it would be nice to get some confirmation that the date is still going to happen. 10PM on a Friday is not that time though. Call her in the morning.
 
Old 08-17-2012, 08:56 PM
 
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If I had a date with someone on Saturday, we talked Tuesday and he called Thursday, at the very least, I would have sent a text today to let him know I was looking forward to tomorrow. But, if I wasn't looking forward to meeting/seeing someone, I never would have agreed to go out in the first place.
 
Old 08-17-2012, 09:01 PM
 
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I'm kinda with TVSG on this one (sign of the apocalypse)....

I would call her in tonight to confirm, leave a message if she doesn't answer, if she doesn't get back to you I would write her off.

Oh, I forget time differences... only 5pm her.
 
Old 08-17-2012, 09:08 PM
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You can come up with the strangest excuses for breaking dates.

What does paying for a date have to do with who calls first or last?


Because I want to feel like someone is not going out with me just to get DINNER. And that's what it will look like if I all of a sudden get a call tomorrow after not communicating with me since Tuesday. If I get a text then I will definitely delete it and do something else.
 
Old 08-17-2012, 09:10 PM
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I think you're being a little dramatic, but yeah it would be nice to get some confirmation that the date is still going to happen. 10PM on a Friday is not that time though. Call her in the morning.


She better call me in the morning.
 
Old 08-17-2012, 09:11 PM
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If I had a date with someone on Saturday, we talked Tuesday and he called Thursday, at the very least, I would have sent a text today to let him know I was looking forward to tomorrow. But, if I wasn't looking forward to meeting/seeing someone, I never would have agreed to go out in the first place.


Thank You. I was the last one who called and the one expected to pay so it's no way I going on a date if I hear nothing from her before I go to sleep
 
Old 08-17-2012, 09:14 PM
 
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Because I want to feel like someone is not going out with me just to get DINNER. And that's what it will look like if I all of a sudden get a call tomorrow after not communicating with me since Tuesday. If I get a text then I will definitely delete it and do something else.
If you didn't break dates for every reason imaginable, I might agree with you. However, I think you're just looking for a reason.
 
Old 08-17-2012, 09:16 PM
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If you didn't break dates for every reason imaginable, I might agree with you. However, I think you're just looking for a reason.
No I was not looking for a reason because i already put the money aside for tomorrow and picked out what i was wearing 2 days ago. So I was definitely looking forward to it.
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