Facebook a girl met at the club...yay or nay?

[intelfan11315]

Originally Posted by futureATLien

So I went out with a friend Friday night and met a cute girl at the club. We're from the same state and she's pret ty cool. I found her on facebook and I'm kinda debating added her as a friend. I'd like to get to know her, but I dont want to be creepy about it. I know it's a trivial matter, well kinda but I'm new to the city and I need people to hangout with. Lol.

100% do it

If that's your only means of contacting her, so be it. If she was into you, she'll be really glad that you added her. If she didn't like you, then she'll just reject your friend request and there is no harm done at all.

[intelfan11315]

Originally Posted by futureATLien

Well she friended me and she has a girlfriend :-(

Are you SURE its a girlfriend and not just her relationship status with a friend? Girls do that all the time.

[CaptainJack87]

Originally Posted by futureATLien

So I went out with a friend Friday night and met a cute girl at the club. We're from the same state and she's pret ty cool. I found her on facebook and I'm kinda debating added her as a friend. I'd like to get to know her, but I dont want to be creepy about it. I know it's a trivial matter, well kinda but I'm new to the city and I need people to hangout with. Lol.

The fact that you're even asking about it on a forum shows that you're already too emotionally invested in this girl.

Short answers:

1) Do it if you want to.
2) Who cares?