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Old 08-28-2012, 09:53 AM
 
Location: The western periphery of Terra Australis
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Virginity is a beautiful.. Try to wait to marriage, it will make the sex better.. Sex outside marriage, unless it is with a REAL PARTNER, is just like booze and dope. You use it for a thrill, but it means nothing and damages your body.

Also, remember condoms don't prevent herpes.. STDs, babies and all are the products of sex.. Wait til marriage and pat yourself on the back for being a virgin, don't slap yourself on the head because society classifies you as a failure.

Try to enjoy better things in life and not be a slave of the hormones.. I, myself, have a strong sex desire.. I try to channel it in other places.. Our society thinks so much about sex, that it is always on the brain.. With digital porn, it is worse now than ever.. Avoid digital porn at all costs..
You into the old school VHS stuff too? I'm with ya there, lol. I joke, of course.
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Old 08-28-2012, 10:10 AM
 
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i am a virgin and i don't think its my state of being celibate that is special but my but that the act of sex itself is. i think sex is a beautiful and intimate and an exclusive experience and i dont feel comfortable at the thought of treating it like a hug or a handshake; something to be shared by every next guy that catches my fancy. i'm waiting to fall in love and share this intimate and private part of myself with someone as an act and expression of love.

I always wonder if people with this mindset are surprised what ****ing is *really* like. Not the meaning you've attached to it, but the physical act itself.
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Old 08-28-2012, 10:23 AM
 
Location: SF CA, USA
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You into the old school VHS stuff too? I'm with ya there, lol. I joke, of course.
VHS? Eff that...Egyptians were into hieroglyph porn way before that.
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Old 08-28-2012, 10:26 AM
 
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I always wonder if people with this mindset are surprised what ****ing is *really* like. Not the meaning you've attached to it, but the physical act itself.
I've heard that one before. Trust me, it is a strange boat to be in. You hear people talk about it, you see it on TV, you might of even see photos, but you never actually do it.
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Old 08-28-2012, 11:07 AM
 
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Virginity is a beautiful.. Try to wait to marriage, it will make the sex better.. Sex outside marriage, unless it is with a REAL PARTNER, is just like booze and dope. You use it for a thrill, but it means nothing and damages your body.

Also, remember condoms don't prevent herpes.. STDs, babies and all are the products of sex.. Wait til marriage and pat yourself on the back for being a virgin, don't slap yourself on the head because society classifies you as a failure.

Try to enjoy better things in life and not be a slave of the hormones.. I, myself, have a strong sex desire.. I try to channel it in other places.. Our society thinks so much about sex, that it is always on the brain.. With digital porn, it is worse now than ever.. Avoid digital porn at all costs..
Amen!
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Old 08-28-2012, 12:13 PM
 
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All this talk about virginity makes me sad. When I was 16 I lost it to a guy friend who I thought was my boyfriend and then he dumped me. 20+ years later I still regret it because I had several situations like this. I later became celibate and will not have sex again unless I marry. I'd rather be a virgin now than my situation and to be honest I see nothing wrong with being a virgin.
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Old 08-28-2012, 12:20 PM
 
Location: Pittsburgh
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I always wonder if people with this mindset are surprised what ****ing is *really* like. Not the meaning you've attached to it, but the physical act itself.
I get what you're saying, and it might be different for guys or for people having sex with someone with good technique, but I know very few women whose first time was anything to write home about. The general attitude was "that was it?"
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