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Old 08-27-2012, 03:35 PM
 
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Well I guess she could get knock up by some dead beat and become a single mom. would that be better?
Yeah because the only options are have no sex or have sex that will get you knocked up by a deadbeat There is no middle ground at all
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Old 08-27-2012, 03:51 PM
 
Location: Northern Wisconsin
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One suggestion. You're looking for religious/Christain behavior, (no sex) from people who I can only assume are not Christian or are phony Christians. You might have better luck finding men in church or at least only dating religious people. That's not an easy thing to do. God fearing religious people are far from the majority. But don't get discouraged. Just readjust your search criteria. Keep in mind, assuming your looking for a spouse, you only need or want one. And you can't order them from Amazon, so its up to you to find them, and that might take time.
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Old 08-27-2012, 03:58 PM
 
Location: Plymouth, MN
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Well I guess she could get knock up by some dead beat and become a single mom. would that be better?
I am sorry, but this would be an equivalent of saying that sex is a filthy, improper and immoral activity, which without doubt leads to STDs and unwanted pregnancies. god forbid you have sex before marrige, or you are totally screwed being a single mom and all that...

this is exactly the caveman mentality that keeps all the young people under a rock instead of being fully educated on the subject.

out of my entire life, ~15 last years were spent on banging a few dozens of hot chicks, while not getting them pregnant or catching an STD. must be a flippin' miracle.
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Old 08-27-2012, 04:12 PM
 
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Yeah because the only options are have no sex or have sex that will get you knocked up by a deadbeat There is no middle ground at all
What's the difference between saying this and saying that any guy who doesn't smash on the first night is a loser?
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Old 08-27-2012, 04:27 PM
 
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I am sorry, but this would be an equivalent of saying that sex is a filthy, improper and immoral activity, which without doubt leads to STDs and unwanted pregnancies. god forbid you have sex before marrige, or you are totally screwed being a single mom and all that...

this is exactly the caveman mentality that keeps all the young people under a rock instead of being fully educated on the subject.

out of my entire life, ~15 last years were spent on banging a few dozens of hot chicks, while not getting them pregnant or catching an STD. must be a flippin' miracle.
Yes my friend It's wrong for me to criticize those who have sex before marriage just like it's wrong for you to criticize people who wait for marriage to have sex. You see how it works? How come your critique is acceptable but mine isn't?
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Old 08-27-2012, 04:29 PM
 
Location: Plymouth, MN
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Yes my friend It's wrong for me to criticize those who have sex before marriage just like it's wrong for you to criticize people who wait for marriage to have sex. You see how it works? How come your critique is acceptable but mine isn't?
because one is healthy and natural, while the other is opressive and harmful idea based on religious mythology and nothing else.

the reason why the Church is trying all it can to contain sexual urges of its followers is because the experience of sex is a lot more powerful than the religious bliss. they are scared ****less. by controling the primal urges of the followers, they control these followers completely.

literally donzes of books were written on the subject.
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Old 08-27-2012, 04:36 PM
 
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one is natural, the other is opressive and harmful idea based on religious mythology.
Some people are religious. They have the right to follow a religion in the same way that they can just as well not believe in one. Do you believe insulting them over the internet is going to change their beliefs? Seems pointless and dickish.
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Old 08-27-2012, 04:36 PM
 
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One suggestion. You're looking for religious/Christain behavior, (no sex) from people who I can only assume are not Christian or are phony Christians. You might have better luck finding men in church or at least only dating religious people. That's not an easy thing to do. God fearing religious people are far from the majority. But don't get discouraged. Just readjust your search criteria. Keep in mind, assuming your looking for a spouse, you only need or want one. And you can't order them from Amazon, so its up to you to find them, and that might take time.
I don't think you can speak in absolutes like this. There are plenty of Christian guys who have sex before marriage. I consider myself a Christian (although in a spiritual sense...I haven't been to church since I was a toddler), and I am one of the few girls my age who believe in waiting until marriage to have sex. It's not a religious thing for me AT ALL. It has nothing to do with what is in the Bible, or what I've heard in church. For me, it's about knowing that I only want to share that part of me and my life with the person I marry. It's a very personal and intimate thing for me, and something I want to share with one person, and one person only. Religion and Christianity have NOTHING to do with it.
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Old 08-27-2012, 07:27 PM
 
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One suggestion. You're looking for religious/Christain behavior, (no sex) from people who I can only assume are not Christian or are phony Christians. You might have better luck finding men in church or at least only dating religious people. .
News flash: Christians have sex before marriage. In fact, 95% -- NINETY-FIVE PERCENT! -- of people have sex before marriage: http://www.usatoday.com/news/health/2006-12-19-premarital-sex_x.htm

Men (and women) in church want to get laid, too.
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Old 08-27-2012, 07:28 PM
 
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I'm a Christian, and I've sexed up women while not married. It's not a big deal. lol
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