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Old 08-26-2012, 08:58 PM
 
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I have a ton of trouble dating. Just this last weekend I got to watch the guy I had a huge crush on ask my sister out in front of me.

I doubt that would have happened if I was 'hot'.
You are hot, in many ways.

I see it, others see it on here. Women see it.

I don't know what your sister looks like, but I know that physical attraction isn't everything. I know what I like, and if I lived close to you I'd go out of my way to talk to you and get to know you better. And no, you wouldn't catch me staring at your bra size either lol.
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Old 08-26-2012, 09:01 PM
 
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Those who are ugly may have the right to kill themselves in the Netherlands. I think this is great. Purify the human race. Most of the ugly losers want to die anyway. They should just watch "Call Me Maybe" video a few times and realize that chicks only want attention from good looking guys. They could live, but they'd be eternally banished to single-loserdom hoping that some chick will say "call me maybe", but they never do because they're Richards. Society is cruel and it should allow people to die who do not, can not and will not conform. Ugly men should be allowed the right to die.
1) Nearly everyone has the potential to look good.
2) Women care about finances and personality as well. So you can be a hot guy but still be a loser. Sure you will most likely get alot of play from women but as far as respect goes they will you see as nothing but a boy toy (which isn't a good thing always trust me I know personally)
3) I don't even know why I'm wasting my time responding to this post. It's obvious your a troll.
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Old 08-26-2012, 09:03 PM
 
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I have a ton of trouble dating. Just this last weekend I got to watch the guy I had a huge crush on ask my sister out in front of me.

I doubt that would have happened if I was 'hot'.
Aww, Booo hooo.


























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Old 08-26-2012, 09:07 PM
 
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I wrote that ugly and short men are seen as losers. I was going by what friends, and family(women) have stated about certain types of men when they were in the dating game. Things like shortness and "ugliness" for these particular women were huge deal-breakers, or undesirable qualities. Of course this isn't the case for everyone. I've always equated "losers" as those that are undesirable, make poor choices, etc.
make poor choices - absolutely. undesirable because of thinhgs have no control over - no way! It could be equated to calling someone a loser, because they were born with a different skin tone, or a woman called a loser because she has small breasts. Ill tell you what, anyone who thinks such nonsense, is much more of a loser than anyone theyre being critical of. tell em ascension2012 and the rest of the world say so
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Old 08-26-2012, 09:08 PM
 
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Fine, pick whatever movie star/model/athlete you want, put him in a McDonald's uniform and I doubt you'd turn him down.
I believe her... To get it on the mark, if the guy was the franchise owner of the fast food joint, but he still cooked everyday because he liked to cook, she might have given him a chance.

In fact, the guy COULD have really been the owner who is posing as an employee just to ward off the gold diggers.

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Old 08-26-2012, 09:11 PM
 
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I believe her... To get it on the mark, if the guy was the franchise owner of the fast food joint, but he still cooked everyday because he like to cook, she might have given him the chance.

In fact, the guy COULD have really been the owner who is posing as an employee just to ward off the gold diggers.
I hadn't considered that he could have been the owner which might have made a difference, but a cook ar 50 just seems odd. If he was a chef at a regular restaurant that is another story because that is a bonafide career, fast food cook is more of a temp job or for teens.
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Old 08-26-2012, 09:18 PM
 
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I hadn't considered that he could have been the owner which might have made a difference, but a cook ar 50 just seems odd. If he was a chef at a regular restaurant that is another story because that is a bonafide career, fast food cook is more of a temp job or for teens.
I do see your point of view and it's valid. Even teens are getting shafted working at all these fast food joints because the pay is so low and they don't get any tips or commission.

As a matter of fact, somebody told me that slave labor in this country is all the cheap labor that these companies get when they employ American teens. This is why I believe the work ethic is so low in 2012, but that's another subject.
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Old 08-26-2012, 09:20 PM
 
Location: Fort Worth, TX
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I'd say a loser is basically somebody who is shiftless. They don't care about improving their lives. They have no ambitions, no goals, no zest.
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Old 08-26-2012, 09:21 PM
 
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And I don't see why.... Poor men mostly comprise of men who put in a honest days work who collectively keep the basic infrastructure of the modern world maintained.

You know... When you go to grab that caned food off the shelf, lather up in your favorite soap, or pump your gas that enables you to drive to work; this was all due to some male "loser".

Where is the gratitude? Where is the compassion? Why don't any hot girls even throw any of these guys even a bone?


This is the basis as to why when some of these men EVENTUALLY make enough money for widespread female approval, they treat women as pure sex objects which is a man's way of returning the same cold calculating judgmental mistreatment.
I see it as no different than an overweight/obese woman not getting any attention for years, losing the weight and then rejecting the men who were a-holes to her when she was fat. Why wouldn't those guys 'throw her a bone' when she wasn't as physically attractive?

Well, she's lost the weight, she's hot now and she's not giving you the time of day. I've seen this quite a few times with girlfriends of mine.
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Old 08-26-2012, 09:24 PM
 
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Aww, Booo hooo.
HEY! Don't diss the Jet. We have a serious JJ fan club going on here. If you're not down with it, mosey on along, then.
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