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I have been dating a man for three months now, he really is wonderful, caring and fun to be with. However, a few days ago I learned something about him that I certainly was NOT expecting.
I was at his apartment and asked him where the bathroom was, he said in his room so I go in and after doing my business I noticed one of the drawers to his dresser was open and being kind of OCD I just was going to close it. Low and behold it has a lot of women's underwear in it! I walk into the living room where we were and ask him about it, I did say that I wasn't snooping just saw it open.
He gets bright red and tells me that he has an embarrassing habit of buying and wearing women's underwear but none of them are stolen or anything like that. He also said he wasn't trying to hide it but as he put it, how do you tell someone you are dating you like to wear women's underwear? Now we have been intimate and I have seen him without clothes so obviously it's not something he wears exclusively. Anyway he seemed sincere and though I was shocked I stayed, finished our movie and I left we didn't say anything else about it.
I just don't know how I feel. I get that even great guys can have their quirks so I am torn. Women, would you be willing to over look this if he were an otherwise great guy?
I just don't know how I feel. I get that even great guys can have their quirks so I am torn. Women, would you be willing to over look this if he were an otherwise great guy?
I honestly don't know what I'd do. *If* the guy was great in all other respects, I'd probably accept it. Though, I wouldn't want to be involved with it- so perhaps it wouldn't work out after all.
I meant when and where like out and about for example not where on your body lol!
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