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Old 08-31-2012, 09:37 AM
 
Location: Infernuan
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Hahahahahahahahaahahahaahahahahaha!!!

There are tears in my eyes because I'm laughing so hard!!!

Personally, I would never put my legs around some guys waste!!!
He'll get it after he sobers up... then again, perhaps not.
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Old 08-31-2012, 10:38 AM
 
Location: New Jersey
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a lot of times the gf's will say he's no good and garbage and they're usually right. of course the woman always says 'oh they're just jealous.' she finds out 4 or 5 months down the line how he really is (cheating, lying, abusive, lazy etc). gf's should just forget about telling her anything, she can beleive whatever she wants about the jerk. that's her problem. who cares.
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Old 08-31-2012, 10:51 AM
 
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a lot of times the gf's will say he's no good and garbage and they're usually right. of course the woman always says 'oh they're just jealous.' she finds out 4 or 5 months down the line how he really is (cheating, lying, abusive, lazy etc). gf's should just forget about telling her anything, she can beleive whatever she wants about the jerk. that's her problem. who cares.
Some people just need to find their own way. There are plenty of jaded women who have been in several bad relationships and learned to stop trusting people. These are the ones who continue to date a holes just to stick with what they know. A good person is a wolf in sheeps clothing to them (whether or not it's true). A good friend would give their opinion but let you choose. They should let you decide and step in if things start looking sour. Not before then.
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Old 08-31-2012, 11:05 AM
 
Location: New Jersey
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Some people just need to find their own way. There are plenty of jaded women who have been in several bad relationships and learned to stop trusting people. These are the ones who continue to date a holes just to stick with what they know. A good person is a wolf in sheeps clothing to them (whether or not it's true). A good friend would give their opinion but let you choose. They should let you decide and step in if things start looking sour. Not before then.

Your friend doesn't have the power to let you choose or not. They can offer their opinion on your situation and you can do whatever you want with it, but don't get mad at the friend because you asked (not you in particular, but you know what I mean). I learned the hard way never to offer my opinion to a woman friend about her man anymore, because they don't really want it. They want someone to blow smoke up their as* where he's concerned and she's better off finding someone else to do that because I'm not interested. I realized a lot of these women I see are emotional basket cases in the palms of these men and cannot see the forest for the trees. They will screw their whole situation around onto you and I don't care to be involved in those kind of games, if the dingbat wants to date that man, so be it. I agree with you that some of them will continue to pick losers and that's their problem.
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Old 08-31-2012, 11:53 AM
 
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Your friend doesn't have the power to let you choose or not. They can offer their opinion on your situation and you can do whatever you want with it, but don't get mad at the friend because you asked (not you in particular, but you know what I mean). I learned the hard way never to offer my opinion to a woman friend about her man anymore, because they don't really want it. They want someone to blow smoke up their as* where he's concerned and she's better off finding someone else to do that because I'm not interested. I realized a lot of these women I see are emotional basket cases in the palms of these men and cannot see the forest for the trees. They will screw their whole situation around onto you and I don't care to be involved in those kind of games, if the dingbat wants to date that man, so be it. I agree with you that some of them will continue to pick losers and that's their problem.
Sorry I just noticed I wasn't clear enough. I meant the FRIENDS are sometimes the jaded ones. They will try to alter your judgement in favor of their own. But you are right in some situations. Sometimes the friends are in the right and the other person is in denial. But from the guys point of view, the jaded friends are the worst since they will use your behavior against you. If you're good, you're a lying a hole. If you're bad, you're just an a hole.
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Old 08-31-2012, 02:08 PM
 
Location: New Jersey
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Sorry I just noticed I wasn't clear enough. I meant the FRIENDS are sometimes the jaded ones. They will try to alter your judgement in favor of their own. But you are right in some situations. Sometimes the friends are in the right and the other person is in denial. But from the guys point of view, the jaded friends are the worst since they will use your behavior against you. If you're good, you're a lying a hole. If you're bad, you're just an a hole.

oh. Okay I see what you mean, yes I agree sometimes the women just want to see the girl 'fail,' for example frenemies or whatever they're called. But I do not beleive every single woman that is against the girl's bf is lying or wants to see the downfall. I don't feel sorry for the man going up against the jaded or non-jaded friends. The woman should be looking and assessing the situation and know whether her friend is really being objective or not. But IMO the women with bf aren't able to do this because they are being snowed by the guy in the first place. I agree with you from before, let them find their own way. I stopped caring 10 exits back.
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