No one can maintain a false persona for ever

[Pikake]

Originally Posted by zentropa

The last guy I ever dated with any regularity. It took about 3 months to reveal that he

1) was sexually repressed
2) had homicidal thoughts about his ex
3) was a terrible father
4) wanted to shoot up government buildings and murder lawyers
5) hated my dog. DEALBREAKER!!

Was his name Dave?

[CaptainJack87]

Have you tried conning the con artists? It's fun.

[recuerdeme]

Originally Posted by Ruth4Truth

Eventually, you find yourself holding a bag of empty words.

Yes... that's me.

[recuerdeme]

Originally Posted by CaptainJack87

Have you tried conning the con artists? It's fun.

No! Life really is too short.

[KayAnn246]

Originally Posted by recuerdeme

Have you ever been with someone that said just about everything right... that had a lot of things in common with you and how you like your relationship and life be it home body or party goer?

But then did that someone start changing and slowly the common interests and goals seem nothing like your own. And he or she pretends not to even remember saying those things?

Then changes start appearing.

And then finally the truth comes out. All the things said weren't really how he/she felt.

What do you do?

I mean you started having feelings for this person and turns out you were being duped.

Do you try to see if you can deal with this new persona or do you leave with your wtf face and disbelief?

Been there, done that. Let that go. You will build up resentment if you continue in the relationship.