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Old 08-28-2012, 10:45 AM
 
Location: State of Transition
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Is this a trick question? The answer is A, of course.

 
Old 08-28-2012, 10:46 AM
 
Location: State of Transition
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Life experience, honey. Its nothing but a test because guys approach wasnt good enough. Any guy who will wait and watch your stuff for you, has already lost any chances to ever sleep with you. THe proper response is to walk away. Just to make it little easier to understand, we are talking about a guy who just approached you, not your husband or someone you are dating.
But the "A" guys are the ones women are marrying.
 
Old 08-28-2012, 10:48 AM
 
Location: NY metro area
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Always, thats why i simply walk away after telling her, sure ill watch your stuff. LMAO. However, this doesnt happen anymore since my approaches have been close to flawless, for a very long time.
Sure!!! It just took a lot of purse holding to get there.
 
Old 08-28-2012, 10:49 AM
 
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A. A guy who holds his female friend's drink as she heads for the bathroom
B. A guy who drinks his female friend's drink as she heads for the bathroom and then says "Tasty!" upon her return



Does he buy her another drink?
 
Old 08-28-2012, 10:50 AM
 
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Unless she is testing him, that is. I know what im talking about, this is only one of series of tests guys normaly have to go through, unless their approach is perfect.
And risk him taking her stuff? No, honey, it doesnt work that way.

I don't know what kind of women you are meeting.
 
Old 08-28-2012, 10:50 AM
 
Location: Infernuan
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Being selfish is actualy a masculine trait, when understoof properly. A man who puts his own interests above anyone elses, including his woman, will have more success with the opposite sex. When a woman is asking you to look after her purse or a drink while she goes to a bathroom, all it really means she is testing you because somewhere in your approach you showed less confidence or assertivness that she would like. THe proper response is to walk away and go talk to another woman.
The stuff I read here, good god...
 
Old 08-28-2012, 10:52 AM
 
Location: Infernuan
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Life experience, honey. Its nothing but a test because guys approach wasnt good enough. Any guy who will wait and watch your stuff for you, has already lost any chances to ever sleep with you. THe proper response is to walk away. Just to make it little easier to understand, we are talking about a guy who just approached you, not your husband or someone you are dating.
Rabbit: "Surely you can't be serious?"

Ascension: "I AM serious. And don't call me 'Shirley'!"

 
Old 08-28-2012, 10:54 AM
 
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But the "A" guys are the ones women are marrying.
Yeah, but the 'B' dudes are getting all the cheapo sex and apparently THAT is what matters the most in this zoo.
 
Old 08-28-2012, 10:54 AM
 
Location: not where you are
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The more these threads come out, the more I think of allowing the Jehovah's w and later day St's into my home when they knock on the door. Almost seems like a better alternative for future generations of dating youth than what's out here now. Just saying, not going there, but that kool-aide is seeming more palatable these days.

My opinion, those B's are pretty juvenile behaviors that might work for some that wish to attract and perpetuate a type of superficial lifestyle. I've watched my nephews have productive relationships, none followed patterned of behaviors mentioned in choice B, probably not so much all of A either. Just not that simple.

But if anyone feels the need to reduce genders to conquest, then have at it, just don't complain, when you are sought out by someone that's using calculated behaviors.
 
Old 08-28-2012, 10:54 AM
 
Location: SF CA, USA
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I always give women my purse before I go to the mens room. Sometimes I ask them to look after my high heels too when I dance, but then someone steps on my toes.
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