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Old 09-03-2012, 07:03 PM
 
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Originally Posted by RamCharger1985 View Post
They're white knights. And the only reason why they say it is because they know its what women like to hear.
If you consider a "White Knight" to be someone that doesn't take advantage of crazy then by all means sign me up - I will lead the charge

 
Old 09-03-2012, 07:08 PM
 
Location: New Jersey
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If you consider a "White Knight" to be someone that doesn't take advantage of crazy then by all means sign me up - I will lead the charge
Why do you assume that the girl in the original post is crazy?

You give the girl an out for her behavior, yet scorn the OP for his behavior.
 
Old 09-03-2012, 07:09 PM
 
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If you consider a "White Knight" to be someone that doesn't take advantage of crazy then by all means sign me up - I will lead the charge
It's amazing that common decency is foreign to some on this forum.
 
Old 09-03-2012, 07:11 PM
 
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Why do you assume that the girl in the original post is crazy?

You give the girl an out for her behavior, yet scorn the OP for his behavior.
Because the OP has stated that he doesn't care why she is behaving in a destructive manner. He would take advantage of someone in pain. Is it really so difficult for you to grasp why that's wrong? Why that would make someone a bad person?
 
Old 09-03-2012, 07:15 PM
 
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Personally I call BS on the whole story anyway
 
Old 09-03-2012, 07:24 PM
 
Location: New Jersey
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Because the OP has stated that he doesn't care why she is behaving in a destructive manner. He would take advantage of someone in pain. Is it really so difficult for you to grasp why that's wrong? Why that would make someone a bad person?
She is CHOOSING to act in a self-destructive manner. I doubt these guys talked her into it.

I wouldn't sleep with the girl, but I am not going to shame someone who would. It's all about choices and personal responsibility.
 
Old 09-03-2012, 07:25 PM
 
Location: H-Tine, Texas
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Because the OP has stated that he doesn't care why she is behaving in a destructive manner. He would take advantage of someone in pain. Is it really so difficult for you to grasp why that's wrong? Why that would make someone a bad person?
Thing is, this is all subjective and varies from person to person. Some guys in his position don't see it as other people do.

What may be a destructive behavior to some may be someone 'just having fun' to others.

What may be someone in pain to some may be seen as someone 'who enjoys sex' to others.

As long as its consensual, no crimes, legally or morally, have been committed in some minds.

I think some people are speaking in absolutes.
 
Old 09-03-2012, 07:26 PM
 
Location: Up above the world so high!
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I'm sorry, there is something not right with her. She is operating under the pain from the breakup obviously. This does not appear to be normal behavior out of her.
YES, another real man who gets it
 
Old 09-03-2012, 07:27 PM
 
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She is CHOOSING to act in a self-destructive manner. I doubt these guys talked her into it.

I wouldn't sleep with the girl, but I am not going to shame someone who would. It's all about choices and personal responsibility.
So you honestly believe it is showing ANY personal responsibility to take advantage of a woman who is behaving self destructively? Really??
 
Old 09-03-2012, 07:35 PM
 
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Originally Posted by RamCharger1985 View Post
She is CHOOSING to act in a self-destructive manner. I doubt these guys talked her into it.

I wouldn't sleep with the girl, but I am not going to shame someone who would. It's all about choices and personal responsibility.
All that means is that you don't care about others. But, generally, taking advantage of people is frowned upon due to ethics and morals. And who cares if someone like you, who doesn't prioritize ethical behavior, chooses not to shame a nasty person who does take advantage of people? You turn a blind eye to evil, but you don't wan the evil behavior chastised. Great world view you have going there.
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