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Woman meet man online, is supposied to just be casual fun know what I mean? They talk a lot and decide to meet in person, and as soon as they land eyes on each other they are smitten!! They have a wonderful night, and morning
They are still seeing each other, and 2 weeks later they both believe they care a lot for one another. what to do? it was not supposed to be this way? they were not supposed to catch any feelings out of this?
Background on him: He is in the army, he is going through a divorce, has 3 kids, he is stationed in a different state, just here for training, and he is deploying in October 2012, to Afghanistan.
What can she do? enjoy the few weeks/days they have together? Stop everything right now, and save herself heartache?
I was once in a relationship I knew could not last, and he knew it too. We dragged it out as long as we could, and I don't regret wringing every last bit of joy from it. I don't think he does either. When it was time to let it go, we let it go.
If the feelings are intense, why not just explore them? See where it goes? Why tank something because it's TOO good?
It is important to protect your heart and see this relationship for what it is! That doesn't mean to end it immediately. Just realize it is a short term relationship, that will have a short term ending. Regardless of feelings.
Besides, nobody knows the future. Just because he is being deployed again doesn't mean there is certainty you would never see him again.
The future changes every day. Never know what will happen. Things shock me every day. If you are willing to ride it out and so is he your story may change.
Divorce take time. And children are needy. Be prepared!
Woman meet man online, is supposied to just be casual fun know what I mean? They talk a lot and decide to meet in person, and as soon as they land eyes on each other they are smitten!! They have a wonderful night, and morning
They are still seeing each other, and 2 weeks later they both believe they care a lot for one another. what to do? it was not supposed to be this way? they were not supposed to catch any feelings out of this?
Background on him: He is in the army, he is going through a divorce, has 3 kids, he is stationed in a different state, just here for training, and he is deploying in October 2012, to Afghanistan.
What can she do? enjoy the few weeks/days they have together? Stop everything right now, and save herself heartache?
Thoughts?
Honestly, I'd be wondering if he were telling the truth about his divorce.
I wouldn't pursue this...bad idea...BAD, BAD idea. In the end, YOU will be the one hurt. Do you want to go through that?
Woman meet man online, is supposied to just be casual fun know what I mean? They talk a lot and decide to meet in person, and as soon as they land eyes on each other they are smitten!! They have a wonderful night, and morning
They are still seeing each other, and 2 weeks later they both believe they care a lot for one another. what to do? it was not supposed to be this way? they were not supposed to catch any feelings out of this?
Background on him: He is in the army, he is going through a divorce, has 3 kids, he is stationed in a different state, just here for training, and he is deploying in October 2012, to Afghanistan.
What can she do? enjoy the few weeks/days they have together? Stop everything right now, and save herself heartache?
Thoughts?
Is this a repeating pattern in your dating lifestyle? Do you consistantly end up in relationships with expiration dates ?
Why spend time with someone that you know will never work in the long run? You will miss out on meeting someone that will have long term potential while spending time with the guy that is leaving.
You should probably look in the mirror and ask this question, you know what you want more than we do.
Dump him, he is looking for a mistress not a partner. He is attempting to manipulate you...he is married...he has 3 kids...he is not going anywhere...he is a player.
Woman meet man online, is supposied to just be casual fun know what I mean? They talk a lot and decide to meet in person, and as soon as they land eyes on each other they are smitten!! They have a wonderful night, and morning
They are still seeing each other, and 2 weeks later they both believe they care a lot for one another. what to do? it was not supposed to be this way? they were not supposed to catch any feelings out of this?
Background on him: He is in the army, he is going through a divorce, has 3 kids, he is stationed in a different state, just here for training, and he is deploying in October 2012, to Afghanistan.
What can she do? enjoy the few weeks/days they have together? Stop everything right now, and save herself heartache?
Thoughts?
He's married.
Move on.
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know what I mean? They talk a lot and decide to meet in person, and as soon as they land eyes on each other 
they are smitten!! They have a wonderful night, and morning 
what to do? it was not supposed to be this way? they were not supposed to catch any feelings out of this?
