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I am very focused on my appearance, but I'm not sure why in many people's mind that's tantamount to insecurity. Some people's hobbies are knitting, tennis, and fishing. My hobby is finding ways to make myself look better. Don't see the big diff.
So was Michael Jackson's. Seriously, that's why you get so much flack about it. It "seems" superficial to many of us.
But, in all sincerity, to each their own. Not for me. I personally like the type that wear no makeup at all. That are beautiful inside and out, and look better the more you get to know them. Again, just preference.
My $.02 would be that physical appearance is a secondary factor for me in overall attraction. I am not saying it is a non-factor, but there is so much more that makes a beautiful, attractive, and desirable person than just their physical appearance.
I am extremely attracted to my wife, physically and otherwise, even though she doesn't fit the stereotypical mold of a beauty at all.
I don't think there's anything wrong with the way the OP looks physically. Nor do I think anything looks unnatural or plastic. (I think the surgeon who did the augmentation did a really good job!)
The only thing I can think would deter the type of men you want to approach you is the way you're carrying yourself.
Are you more confident in your appearance now that you've had the procedures?
Are you dressing the same or different to show off your figure? Even if you're still dressing the same, could you potentially look different because of the size of your chest?
OP, I think you are a beautiful girl, and I don't think you needed any surgery. I think you were well proportioned and maybe a little bit more so before.
I have seen the newest picture from your other thread and truthfully, I think you looked better before. I seem to be just about the size you are now, with the surgery. For me, this is after surgery as well, reduction surgery.
What I don't understand with your surgery is that you don't look 'perky' at all. I am not going to give my full opinion because it wont sound nice but I am nearly 40 years old and have had surgery 12 years ago to reduce my breast size to about where you are now and mine..... have lift to them.
Not sure what isn't self-explanatory about your OP, but here goes...
I don't mean to be insulting here, but given the choice between a natural-looking beauty whose body is in proportion versus Botoxing and plastic surgery and breasts that are not only obviously fake but out of proportion to the body, most men are going to go for the natural beauty--and natural beauty abounds among women your age, simply because of the vitality of youth and the freshness of skin. Conversely, when you enlarge your chest to the point that it's the main focus of your appearance, you hypersexualize yourself. You lose the "you" in your appearance and instead strike people as the sum of your secondary sex characteristics.
I do not know even one man who likes a whole lot of plastic and fakery to a woman's looks. Change your hair, play up your features with subtle make-up, work out, fine. But once you get into extreme body modifications, have fake hair AND fake eyes AND fake nails AND fake skin (with the Botox) AND fake whatever, you risk turning men off. And honestly, I can't say I blame men for being turned off by too much enhancement. It translates to "phony overall," and a preoccupation with yourself and your looks that can come from either narcissism or extreme insecurity. Men of wisdom and substance don't go for that.
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uhhh.... because botox and fake boobs don't look good? And curves, a little meat on a woman, do?
This pretty much. I guess it's just a negative connotation, but the thought of a young woman getting botox and a boob job kinda bothers me. I would never approach a woman anywhere if I saw her with some fake Doubles and botox and it has nothing to do with confidence, just playing thr averages. I'd feel like I'd need to own a Lamborghini to get a girl like that.
Wasn't there a thread somewhere on here about a woman deciding if she should get plastic surgery or go to college? A thread like that speaks volumes. A woman's motives are pretty clear when she's considering a situation like that.
Who is more likely to get plastic work done in their 20s? An aspiring porn star, webcam model, stripper or a teacher, nurse or Ivy League school graduate*?
*of course the IL graduate could turn to a life of porn, but that's neither here nor there.
Obviously not saying this is you, as I was talking in general terms. Fake, fake bewbs don't really look attractive to me.
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What exactly makes a girl unapproachable? Anyone?
First thing I notice is her facial expression. In other words, does she look like a b****? And for some, me included as a guy, they constantly look angry or b****y, even when they don't mean to or notice it.
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I come off differently on every forum I post on based on what I get out of posting on there. I'm a straight up troll when I post on white nationalist boards, I'm obsessed with food when I post on my vegetarian boards, etc.
Rebel.
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