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First time in this forum and I happened to pick this thread. Wohoo!!! I am 38 and should be in my prime BUT (women you will understand this) I had my prime material removed two years ago. If I take my happy pills I am 18 years old again and ready to rumble if I do not I am an 80 year old prune.
Hmmmm, what are those "happy pills" called and do you need a prescription???
I find this topic fascinating. I find alot of women complain because their husbands/boyfriends have low sex drives. We don't think of this because society makes us believe that men want it ALL THE TIME which is not true.
I was wondering who here male or female are not "getting" it enough or want it more but the other partner is not interested. Also, I would like to hear from people that feel pressured to have sex with their partner even though they don't want to or feel the need to....
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well in my situation I only get sex with my wife 4x a year imagine that I don't know what I need to do to get her to make love with me, i always ask first if its ok & even if it is ok i dont get the feeling she like having sex. Any input people?
I am a wife of 25yrs. and have always felt that "I wish i could get more sex" In my thirtys i thought i would go crazy! it didnt matter how much i complained to my husband, he wont change...he just is not turned on by it as much as i am. Im in my fourtys now, and its worst than ever. but now, i try to not focus so much on it, or maybe i just dont care anymore.
I am a wife of 25yrs. and have always felt that "I wish i could get more sex" In my thirtys i thought i would go crazy! it didnt matter how much i complained to my husband, he wont change...he just is not turned on by it as much as i am. Im in my fourtys now, and its worst than ever. but now, i try to not focus so much on it, or maybe i just dont care anymore.
Well you just explained my life....hold on... at menopause the drive will go away and you will be freed. It's very liberating to be able to say "no thank you"
IM WITH YA!! I want it all the time-- but my problem is if I want it, I gotta throw myself at my husband of 3 years. And even then, I feel like Im forcing myself on him. He lacks interest, but once he REALLY gets going its better.. My issue is, shouldn't he want to get it from me, and initiate it? Or has he just become so lazy he doesnt care?
If ya don't have matching sex drives you are in for a very sad marriage that won't last (unless you like punishment). Sex is just as important as any other part of a relationship and prolly more. People that don't want alot of sex all the time have something wrong with them and need to get help unless they want to be alone with themselves forever.
well in my situation I only get sex with my wife 4x a year imagine that I don't know what I need to do to get her to make love with me, i always ask first if its ok & even if it is ok i dont get the feeling she like having sex. Any input people?
Don't ask.......my DH does that - I hate that! It should be spontaneous and fun. Ravage her! Attack her when she leasts expects it! Make it fun!
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