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Old 09-05-2012, 07:08 PM
 
Location: New Jersey
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I couldn't get a girlfriend because of several issues. Go read my first thread, don't want to repeat it all over again here. Escorts are less likely to make fun of me,.
Well yeah, its not in her best interest to make fun of you to your face. She'd lose a customer. But most sex workers loathe the male gender. There is no way an escort gets turned on during a session because odds are she would never give you the time of day if you weren't giving up the green.

The truth? She'll forget you by morning.
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Old 09-05-2012, 07:09 PM
 
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I'm not a virgin but love the idea of dating a virgin. I doubt this will happen but the more I met guys the more I find men even my age and older who are virgins.
I'm actually surprised. I've heard of this scenario for years, but only in men. My psychologist said that men love training women to do the theater show.

You would think someone that desperate would of became a sugar daddy already or at least gone to a higher extent of nightclubs, neighbors, friends, cousins and so forth but I guess they exist. I'm suspicious my high school teacher was one. He never married, never had a kid and was labeled a creep and a porn addict.
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Old 09-05-2012, 07:13 PM
 
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I looked up your thread. Other than your romantic life, you seem to be fulfilled, no?

Do you have difficulty speaking with women? Have you tried online dating at all? Or are you just not interested in that aspect?

I don't see anything wrong with being satisfied with the way your life is. Everyone becomes fulfilled in different ways.
I don't have any difficulty speaking with women about trivial things or asking information, but could never ask them on a date. Just the thought of it is an embarrassment. Online dating is a joke and I don't trust it all.

My life isn't perfect just like everyone else's life but as I usually say, nobody can say they were unhappy because of me. Nobody.
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Old 09-05-2012, 07:15 PM
 
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Paying for sex is worse than getting rejected.

I had a friend way back in the day who worked up an algorithm: He had a fixed 50% chance of getting laid whenever he goes up to a girl (at a social gathering) and asking her if she wants to do it with him. Sure, he got slapped, yelled at, drinks tossed at him, but at the end of the night, he always found someone who said yes every time. No game, just straight up asking.

Moral: Man up and get your noodle wet.
Good luck to him then. I don't want to nor will I put myself through such humiliation, strange women aren't worth that much.
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Old 09-05-2012, 07:16 PM
 
Location: Lehighton/Jim Thorpe area
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I don't have any difficulty speaking with women about trivial things or asking information, but could never ask them on a date. Just the thought of it is an embarrassment. Online dating is a joke and I don't trust it all.

My life isn't perfect just like everyone else's life but as I usually say, nobody can say they were unhappy because of me. Nobody.
Don't your friends ever try to fix you up?
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Old 09-05-2012, 07:17 PM
 
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Well yeah, its not in her best interest to make fun of you to your face. She'd lose a customer. But most sex workers loathe the male gender. There is no way an escort gets turned on during a session because odds are she would never give you the time of day if you weren't giving up the green.

The truth? She'll forget you by morning.
As if I didn't know that already. Do you think I'm 5? At least there's no hypocrisy and no psychological games with escorts. You ask for a service, you get it.
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Old 09-05-2012, 07:18 PM
 
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Don't your friends ever try to fix you up?
First, they don't know about it. And second, even if they knew, I wouldn't accept it. I find that incredibly disrespectful.

And right now I don't really have any real friends left. They are all married.
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Old 09-05-2012, 07:21 PM
 
Location: Lehighton/Jim Thorpe area
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First, they don't know about it. And second, even if they knew, I wouldn't accept it. I find that incredibly disrespectful.

And right now I don't really have any real friends left. They are all married.
I'm sorry, I wasn't clear. I meant fix you up for a relationship, not for sex. But I'm making an assumption that you want a relationship, which I shouldn't. Some people are perfectly happy with remaining single.
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Old 09-05-2012, 07:23 PM
 
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I'm sorry, I wasn't clear. I meant fix you up for a relationship, not for sex. But I'm making an assumption that you want a relationship, which I shouldn't. Some people are perfectly happy with remaining single.
Either way I wouldn't accept it. I want a relationship but I know the woman that meets my requirements doesn't exist and I also know she would get through a bad time with me and I with her. It's a question of being in touch with reality and truthful to yourself.
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Old 09-05-2012, 07:26 PM
 
Location: Lehighton/Jim Thorpe area
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Gotcha. Nothing wrong with that. It seems like you are pretty aware of yourself.
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