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I've got an idea for your next "job" for the bar adventure, why don't you tell them you are a "Professional Beggar" because you don't really like to do actual work for actual pay. Then you can discuss all the responses you go from your thread titled:
" Begging - is it an acceptable form of work? ".
Don't forget to list all of your reasons why begging IS an actual form of work and is acceptable. That should do the trick much quicker than being a silly old record producer.
What do you expect when you sleep with someone who you just met? Do you think you will get to know someone over a drink in a bar. Why does it matter for you if he is a sales assistant at KFC or a magazine editor? The only thing that matters is how he makes you feel at the moment.
However in long term relationships, then lying is a big no no.
Oh now heck, there is nothing wrong with sleeping with random men, the problem occurs when you have sex with all those random men you have decided to sleep with.
Oh now heck, there is nothing wrong with sleeping with random men, the problem occurs when you have sex with all those random men you have decided to sleep with.
I don't know where you live, but among my friends when people say "did you sleep with him", they really mean "did you have sex with him".
I remember reading a guy's story about how he tried to talk to this super hot girl at a bar and got rejected hard. Then his friend told her he was the starting TE for the close-by D1 school and within an hour, they were at her place bangin' it out.
So, yeah it works.
No, it isn't cool, but
if a woman is going to be so shallow and pathetic, then I don't feel bad for her.
This is how I feel.
Is it wrong to lie, in this way? Yes, definitely.
Do the women deserve sympathy, when they sleep with a guy because of his lie? No. I actually think it is hilarious.
but if a girl says that she loves me in order to get me to perform, then what is the difference with me making up a little white lie about my job?
hell, she enjoyed sleeping with the 'astronaut / record producer the other night' - so that's not really going to change once she finds out I'm really a pizza delivery boy!
and well, yes - perhaps I am a sociopath - ha ha!
If you have to lie to women because your reality would not interest them, how often does this really happen? Have you had a lot of women tell you that they love you? You make it sound like these are the same women--ohh, they love you because they think you are an astronaut? Are they drunk at the time?
Liars are lame. Are the chicks sleeping with you shallow and dumb? Maybe, but that doesn't make lying less lame.
I think it's wrong to lie, and better to act with integrity. Have you been watching reruns of "How I Met Your Mother" by chance? You sound like the Barney Stinson character.
Anyway, OP, by your logic would you be perfectly okay with it if I lied to you to defraud you of your money (assuming you have more than enough for lunch)? I can assure you that you'd think if was worthwhile, and later have an interesting story to tell about the experience, so just think of your dearly departed money as an entertainment fee.
Not that I've lied about my occupation to get a girl in bed, but, isn't it just as unfair for a woman to have plastic surgery, wear hair extensions, body slimming clothes and under garments to get some that night? Where's the integrity in that.
Women place more value on a guys occupation, where as men place more value on her looks.
I don't fault a guy for lying to get a girl in bed that night. If the girl falls for it, shame on her. Just like a guy falling for a girl with fake everything.
Of course it's not ok. I can't believe anyone would even have to ask this question. It is not ok to lie. It is not ok to deceive. It it's not ok to think that people are so unimportant that you need not show them the fundamental respect of honesty. It diminishes everyone involved and the liar most of all.
I agree. The OP's lack of human decency and cavalier attitude about lying to women is disturbing. I feel saddened by his post and am so thankful for all the good men of the world who don't deceive people to get their way.
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