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Old 09-11-2012, 10:58 AM
 
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ugly?

Gym and plastic surgery
One good thing about modern times is that anyone can be attractive really
It may take a while, but from what I hear about your previous posts, you can actually stomach hiring prostitutes to assuage yourself in the meantime.

So do that, and then just start by trying to sleep with women. Relationship will come later/when you're more comfortable with women; I suspect this is my problem and what I think I'm going to try to do.

FYI just being hot can get you a number sometimes, apparently, because it worked for me just last weekend, barely even said anything to the girl.
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Old 09-11-2012, 12:17 PM
 
Location: Philadelphia, PA
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what if you try but never get - what kind of reward is that?
I would like to know the answer to this as well.
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Old 09-11-2012, 12:18 PM
 
Location: Philadelphia, PA
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Life isn't fair. We don't always get what we deserve, good or bad.
You're telling me!
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Old 09-11-2012, 01:42 PM
 
Location: Lahore, Pakistan
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What about the many Chinese men for instance who will never find a girl due to the high gender imbalance ratio in their country? It won't matter how much money, looks, charisma, humor, etc. they have. Some of them just won't be able to find a girl, period. All they can blame then are shortsighted politicians, social norms, etc. but that doesn't help them any, does it?
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Old 09-11-2012, 01:56 PM
 
Location: The Hall of Justice
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Nobody deserves a boyfriend or girlfriend. People have feelings and free will. They are not objects to be collected as our due in life.
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Old 09-11-2012, 03:07 PM
 
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What about the many Chinese men for instance who will never find a girl due to the high gender imbalance ratio in their country? It won't matter how much money, looks, charisma, humor, etc. they have. Some of them just won't be able to find a girl, period. All they can blame then are shortsighted politicians, social norms, etc. but that doesn't help them any, does it?
There's always polyandry.
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Old 09-11-2012, 08:08 PM
 
Location: Philadelphia, PA
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Nobody deserves a boyfriend or girlfriend. People have feelings and free will. They are not objects to be collected as our due in life.
I think people deserve to be happy if they work hard. They deserve to get the things they want in life. It may be impossible to pin it down to one specific person... because as you say, everyone has their own feelings. But overall, don't you think people who do the right things deserve love, happiness, and a nice roll in the hay here and there?
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Old 09-12-2012, 05:44 AM
 
Location: The Hall of Justice
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I think people deserve to be happy if they work hard. They deserve to get the things they want in life. It may be impossible to pin it down to one specific person... because as you say, everyone has their own feelings. But overall, don't you think people who do the right things deserve love, happiness, and a nice roll in the hay here and there?
We have the right to pursue happiness, not the right to be happy. Happiness is subjective and fleeting anyway. I think TVSG would be happy with a mute sports fan who liked to walk on his back, but I'm not going to tell him that's what he deserves or that women should be giving that to him because he's not happy right now. I'm also not in a position to judge who is or is not worthy of happiness or who is doing "the right things."

People have free will, which is why it's wonderful when they love you and want to stay. Rather than telling people that they deserve something and have them gripe when they don't get it, I'd rather tell people that they deserve nothing, so that they are pleased and grateful when they have something. I do think it would be great if more people did find love and happiness. There are a few people in my life I'd like to see matched up and out of the game.
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Old 09-12-2012, 07:29 AM
 
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does everyone deserve love or happiness?
i'm struggling to think of an example where a person deserves anything. i've never liked that word, or what it implies. So the answer is no, no one deserves love or happiiness.
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Old 09-12-2012, 07:40 AM
 
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I think people deserve to be happy if they work hard. They deserve to get the things they want in life. It may be impossible to pin it down to one specific person... because as you say, everyone has their own feelings. But overall, don't you think people who do the right things deserve love, happiness, and a nice roll in the hay here and there?

No. Life does not work that way.
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