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I do really miss her ! Weve been in contact everyday since she left in june. Im just thinking far too much into the whole thing.. Stupid really ! Im not sure why im worryin about the whole situation ! Thanks for your answers guys !
I would come over for this. First of all it will be a great experience and secondly, it will allow you to confirm if you have any feelings for this girl and if so, how deep they are.
Now for the important questions ... where in the USA are you going and is there an RSC there? If not then you will have to get access to RTV which will need a broadband connection.
Haha its st louis. Ill have to ask her that question ! Im sure there will be a bear friendly pub somewhere ! Ailing that as you say, ill have to make sure its a broadband area haha !
I dunno i guess im thinking far too much into the whole situation ! Being stupid really ! Weve been in contact everyday since she left in june so again i dunno what im worried about ! Haha jaggy001 .. Good question, its st louis. Im sure ill find a pub that is bear friendly ! Failing that ill be on the laptop hunting for the links haha !
Well..I hate to bring in reality here.If you are just looking at her as NOTHING more than a buddy, then fine. Go experience America. But, if you think you may develop serious feelings for this girl, I would rethink this trip. You live in Scotland, she lives here in America. Do you seriously think that you will be able to sustain a long distance relationship? Espescially at your ages?? the fact that you say you love her makes me think you already got those feelings. Heck you two arent even in the same COUNTRY, never mind state.
Where exactly is all of this gonna go? If you think your heart is tough enough to handle that, go ahead and jump in. But, be forewarned. Those two weeks will fly by..and then where will you be? Back in Scotland and all love sick?
good luck getting 10 weeks in the us without being asked many invasive questions and having to prove you are not intending on staying within the usa. spoilers: they dont like this activity. have all your information and motivations ready or be prepared to be very disappointed
the rest you already know...and i would happen to guess you are trying to talk yourself out of. choose now what you want to be to this girl because once you start down this road it isn't easy
Of course i miss her. Weve been in contact everyday since she left in june. Im just thinking far too much into it ! Im being stupid really ! Thanks for the responses ! And jaggy001 its st louis. Soo i think ill have a few early roses to catch the lunchtime kick offs ! Im sure ill find a bear friendly pub somewhere !!
That is my concern, if i go over there and it does reinforce my feelings for her then im only setting myself up for a fall so to speak ! Once the two weeks are over ill be back in scotland and shell be in the states .. Im pretty worried about the whole situation ! I guess only time will tell. The fact that shes wanting me to meet her family and attend a family wedding with her whilst im there also worries me as i think this shows shes more interested than im actually thinking she is ! I dunno i guess only time will tell !
She is inviting you because she misses you and wants to see you and probably wants to share her life here in the US with you as well. Why would you think it would be anything other than that? Don't you miss her and want to see her as well? She wants to spend time with you, have her meet her family, let you see her apartment, and probably show you around town. I am sure it isn't easy having a long distance relationship, so you need to try to get what time you can with each other.
Well..I hate to bring in reality here.If you are just looking at her as NOTHING more than a buddy, then fine. Go experience America. But, if you think you may develop serious feelings for this girl, I would rethink this trip. You live in Scotland, she lives here in America. Do you seriously think that you will be able to sustain a long distance relationship? Espescially at your ages??
My husband and I did before we were married. I was in my early 20s, though he's was in his late 20s. I know some people don't "get" long distance relationships but that does not mean they are never successful. If you really, really love someone, it's worth it to put up with some time apart if it means being together the rest of your life. I'm just not totally convinced that this is how the OP feels about her.
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