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female infidelity is beyond simple to explain. When a woman is not satisfied in the bedroom, she will cheat and it will be mans fault for her doing so. No exceptions.
But don't you think this is a problem a woman created? She SHOULD have chased after who she lusted after. That's why you have women married to dweebs in corner offices and then lust after the pool boy and the mechanic, sometimes following through ... once, or more than once.
If the "front burner" item in their attraction ISN'T physical attraction, and it's intelligence or ability to provide, the message is that the most rudimentary animalistic basis for attraction MAY be lacking, and that doesn't bode well.
The other thing is, about the dweebs, appearances can be deceiving. I'll use a movie as an example. On a long flight in July, I had movie options on my monitor, so I watched "Crazy, Stupid Love." The "too cool for school" Ryan Gosling had to give "regular guy" Steve Carell make-over instructions, post divorce. Dumb film, but free. The bottom line is that the Ryan Gosling character might be eyewash who didn't get repeat performances (courtesy of himain) and the Steve Carell guy might know what he's doing. In fact, one schoolteacher at his kids' school was crazy about him. Again, dumb film, but one draws parallels to real life.
I was once listening to a show where the question was asked "Everything is there, we complete each other's sentences, but ... " The psychologist on the show said "Don't go there, then."
I don't see why they wouldn't want to be lusted after. Who wants to be with someone who just lays there and doesn't seem into it? I think it's a huge ego boost when you are with someone who just can't keep their hands to themselves. Is there anything better than being with someone you can barely make it through dinner because you just can't wait to go home and rip their clothes off? Guys aren't total cavemen. I think they need to feel wanted and desired just as much as women do. But I'm not a guy, so I could be wrong!
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