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Old 09-19-2012, 12:20 AM
 
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I'm having a conversation with someone on POF. I'm asking her questions (what do you do, hobbies, etc) when she blurts out how I can ask her anything.

What does that mean?

I wasn't particularly thinking of asking her about her sex life as we're strangers, but...is that the green light to do so?

I ended up taking the safe road and asked about cuddling.

So what do women (she's mid 20s) mean when they say that?
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Old 09-19-2012, 12:22 AM
 
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If you just met, no. It means " talk to me and get to know me".
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Old 09-19-2012, 12:24 AM
 
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it means ask her about her last bowel movement.
seriously though, its already answered above me in the first post.
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Old 09-19-2012, 12:30 AM
 
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If you just met, no. It means " talk to me and get to know me".
But we already were. I mean, this came after about 90 minutes of going back and forth already.
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Old 09-19-2012, 12:32 AM
 
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But we already were.
What's the rush? Do you think this woman is impatient or something?
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Old 09-19-2012, 12:35 AM
 
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What's the rush? Do you think this woman is impatient or something?
No...

I just don't know the pace people on sites like that generally go with.

I saw some of the messages other guys send, and it's way beyond where I start my conversations off.
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Old 09-19-2012, 12:36 AM
 
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It means she either lacks the skill to carry on a conversation in an engaging way, or she is a lazy conversationalist who wants you to do all the work. Either way, she's a dud.
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Old 09-19-2012, 01:17 AM
 
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No...

I just don't know the pace people on sites like that generally go with.

I saw some of the messages other guys send, and it's way beyond where I start my conversations off.
ahh yeah. I hear ya.
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Old 09-19-2012, 01:20 AM
 
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You can ask me anything you want to ask however, I always retain the option not to answer your question.
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Old 09-19-2012, 01:23 AM
 
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What it means is that you were talking about hobbies and surface, boring things. You were being boring and she hoped you would say something exciting. It may have been sex she was after - I don't know what this woman is like - But it's also just as likely that she thought you were the type to play it so safe that you would not be fun, so she hoped you would say something - Anything - That wouldn't be the standard, "Hi. How are you? That's good. What do you like? You're hot. That's good. How are you? Did I ask that already? Hahah. That's good."
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