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Old 09-21-2012, 10:50 PM
 
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When I first started being interested in this guy we were going to hang out. But he wanted to take a nap so he told me to call when I was ready. When I did I couldn't get a hold of him so I'm like whatever. He said he slept through it. I was like how come you didn't set an alarm? He said he didn't think he needed one. So I let it go. So second time I said I was around let's meet up and we do. He said lets have lunch and I say yes tomorrow. Tomorrow comes and I can't get a hold of him. He tells me he doesn't remember agreeing to have lunch with me. I get annoyed but let it go. We hang out a few more times, sometimes he contacts me but it's always last minute or if I happen to be in the neighborhood. Well he asked to have lunch today, I say sure but I can't get a hold of him. He said he was in the shower. I'm like why would you ask someone to have lunch then be unavailable? Are we having some major communication problems or is he playing some game with me?
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Old 09-21-2012, 11:08 PM
 
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he isn't interested in you.

stop contacting him.

he is playing games with you
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Old 09-21-2012, 11:11 PM
 
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You have been about 8 more contacts patient with this guy than I would have. Don't answer his calls or texts and move on. No sense in wasting any more time with someone who is not considerate enough to actually show up when they are the one who extended the invitation.
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Old 09-22-2012, 12:55 AM
 
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Agree with the previous poster. Do yourself a favor and move on. When a man is truly interested in you then he will make time for you. There won't be any confusion about where you stand with him. Plenty of other men out here that would love your attention. Best of luck.
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Old 09-22-2012, 12:59 AM
 
Location: Tricity, PL
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You are his last resort , if nothing else, more interesting come along.
Stop calling him and ask to meet. He say yes to be polite, but he does not mean it.
Look for someone who will ask YOU to go out...
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Old 09-22-2012, 01:20 AM
 
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Sounds like a flake, as I mentioned in another thread about how that's my #1 pet peeve in dating. Don't waste your time on someone who's not going make you a priority.
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Old 09-22-2012, 01:35 AM
 
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Lol, take the hint.
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Old 09-22-2012, 01:48 AM
 
Location: So Cal
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Move on.................
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Old 09-22-2012, 01:53 AM
 
Location: San Antonio, TX
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I would definitely move on. I'm wondering if this guy might be married or something.
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Old 09-22-2012, 03:11 AM
 
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Leave this guy behind you. He is playing games and obviously not serious about you. Ignore his calls and texts and find another guy.
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