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Old 09-24-2012, 07:54 PM
 
Location: Bethesda, MD
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I think in his eyes, only black women need to have stuff in common with the men for the relationship to work. For men, it doesn't matter.

I mean since you know:


And obviously the "domineering" black women can't get along with white men. I am not sure who I am supposed to target based on this logic.

Obviously I have nothing in common with white guys. And black men don't want me. So I guess that means black women should become lesbians! Yeah, that's it.
I guess he believes every black woman has a big mouth and an even bigger attitude. He shouldn't paint black women with such a broad brush.
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Old 09-24-2012, 07:56 PM
 
Location: Oakland, CA
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Why don't they? Have you asked any of them?
That's based on your logic. Didn't you say black men like latinas and white women? I mean, I am just trying to make sure I really understand the message here. I obviously have nothing in common with white men......and the black men want something else....so where does that leave me as a black woman?
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Old 09-24-2012, 07:58 PM
 
Location: Oakland, CA
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I guess he believes every black woman has a big mouth and an even bigger attitude. He shouldn't paint black women with such a broad brush.
I mean since black women are "domineering" isn't he afraid we are going to come and kick his butt?
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Old 09-24-2012, 07:59 PM
 
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Am I to take it that it is your belief that the races should stay with their own? Keep themselves pure?

That's fine, if that's what you think, but I really don't think that means that different races can't have things in common. My cousin has been married to a black man for 23 years this year, and they were together for five years before this. I have to think they must have had something in common....
No, I'm all for IR....if it's for the right reasons
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Old 09-24-2012, 07:59 PM
 
Location: Midwest
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LOL, that's not a role I'm willing to play and luckily, no white guy I've ever dated has asked me to "dominate" him. We just got along like normal people, believe it or not.
lol I'm just joking.
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Old 09-24-2012, 08:00 PM
 
Location: Midwest
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That's based on your logic. Didn't you say black men like latinas and white women? I mean, I am just trying to make sure I really understand the message here. I obviously have nothing in common with white men......and the black men want something else....so where does that leave me as a black woman?
You can always ride off into the sunset with me, jade. lol j/k
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Old 09-24-2012, 08:02 PM
 
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lol I'm just joking.
It's cool. I just wanted to make it clear that no kinky/fetish stuff goes on when I date interracially.
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Old 09-24-2012, 08:02 PM
 
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Some of you people take comments so seriously...
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Old 09-24-2012, 08:03 PM
 
Location: Midwest
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Some of you people take comments so seriously...
It's because there are people out there who really believe some of the stuff you're saying.
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Old 09-24-2012, 08:05 PM
 
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It's because there are people out there who really believe some of the stuff you're saying.
I believe bicoastal has used his experiences to come to that conclusion. I'm just co-signing with him.
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