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I miss being close to someone who understands me and accepts me completely. I can't be my weird, random, spazzy self with most of my friends. But in a good relationship I can.
I miss the physical part a LOT right now. Not sex(virgin here), but holding someone's hand, cuddling a LOT, just pulling them in tight and breathing them in and instantly being calmed down. I can remember that like it was yesterday. But making out and all of that good stuff too.
I miss having like...a dependable, go-to friend. Most of my friends don't MAKE time to hang out with me. But a boyfriend would. And I miss that.
I miss laughing, kissing, hugging, and loving.
I'm newly single and not dealing with it very well. LOL. The relationship ended for good reasons, but now I'm just lonely. :/ I lost my best friend and my boyfriend. I'm pathetic. XD LOL
Movies, then dancing afterward. Passionate and engaging conversation all the way home. Unbridled laughter, attempting to sing in unison.
Scented candles and wine back at the apartment. Gershwin for Lovers playing quietly in the background as a gentle breeze caresses the tips of each candle's flame. Cherry spice. Burgundy satin sheets. No words needed at this point. Everything is understood.
Saturday morning, the candles have burned out, the breeze has cooled. Nothing to do but to lay here and cuddle. Morning kisses, followed by scrambled eggs and hot peach tea.
Do I miss it? Like the morning misses its sunrise.
Laughing until you cry
Inside jokes
That reassuring hand on your lower back when he knows you're uncomfortable
Being told you're awesome, even if you feel like crap
Having backup when things go horribly wrong
And my favorite thing of all...random kisses on your temple/head/cheek for no real reason other than they want to.
If your gf/bf was so great in the first place, why did you break up?
I actually miss NOTHING about any of them except (always) the sex.
I guess none of them were "right".
He was a fantastic first boyfriend. I still have very fond feelings for my ex and he'll always have a place in my heart. I have a year full of awesome memories because of him. But he moved half way across the country with his family and I was starting college, so I ended things before we would grow apart and end up hating each other. He comes back in a year so who knows. :/
There are pros and cons to everything. There are people who wish they were Single also.
Benefits of a relationship come with a price and emotional tag also.
Of course...anyone who wishes they were single can actually do something to make themselves single.
You can't make yourself have a romantic relationship. You gotta get a second person to cooperate.
So I don't think those 'wish I were single' people really wish that. Or they would do it.
I think when I was single, what I missed most was the companionship.
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I'm cool with doing everything else.
