How do guys with a lot of physical flaws go about dating? (woman, therapy)

[CaptainJack87]

Originally Posted by bson1257

Short

I'm short. It was only an issue when I thought it was an issue.

Thinning hair

Rogaine?

You could also just shave your head if it bothers you that much.

stretch marks
gynecomastia
small penis

By the time the girl realizes this, it'll be too late to turn back


You have to stop letting your imperfections bother you. Don't even focus on your positives, just stop thinking about them entirely.

[TripleBeamDreams]

Originally Posted by bson1257

Short
small penis


The list goes on and on and on.

There is something you can actually do to fix this. Go to either one of these websites: mattersofsize.com or thundersplace.com. It's all free.



Go there.
Go there now.

[Rabbitluvr]

Originally Posted by zentropa

How would anyone know about your stretch marks or the size of your penis before rejecting you? Do you tell them? If so I would STOP DOING THAT RIGHT NOW.

Exactly what I was thinking... how the hell would anyone know that unless...

[BradPiff]

Guys with phsyical flaws get laid all the time. You just have to have something else to compensate for your looks.

For example, mick jagger is one of the ugliest men I've ever seen but he's a legendary rockstar and is rich so it's ok

[Rhenzanite]

I'm not going to sugar coat it for you, people with physical flaws that are outside the 'norm' are ALWAYS going to have more difficulty dating and finding a partner. It will take far more effort and you will have to get over constant rejection before hopefully finding someone who will love you for you and overlook the flaws.

I have quite a few major physical flaws and it's been EXTREMELY difficult to date and my 'normal' friends simply can't comprehend how hard it is. Your physical flaws, however, don't seem too terribly bad. They seem fairly run-of-the-mill compared to a lot of people I've met, and women are far more likely to overlook flaws than men are in general. Be thankful for that

[Raena77]

Don't worry so much about this. Great persona helps.

[Lucario]

Originally Posted by bson1257

Short
Thinning hair
stretch marks
gynecomastia
small penis


The list goes on and on and on.

Hit the gym! That would be a start.

[bson1257]

Originally Posted by Lucario

Hit the gym! That would be a start.

I could go to the gym every single day for 10 hours and it still wouldn't do a thing for the problems I listed.

[JrzDefector]

Originally Posted by bson1257

I could go to the gym every single day for 10 hours and it still wouldn't do a thing for the problems I listed.

Oh wah. No, it probably won't, but it will make the rest of you more attractive to compensate. Stop wallowing. Are you happy now? Doesn't sound like it. So make some changes. They won't make things WORSE, will they?

[Lucario]

Originally Posted by bson1257

I could go to the gym every single day for 10 hours and it still wouldn't do a thing for the problems I listed.

It wouldn't make you more fit or muscular or healthy? Seems like it would definitely help your problems.