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Old 10-01-2012, 12:17 PM
 
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The vast majority of courtships involve men wooing with spa treatments? Where do you get your data from.

I've known many successful relationships where the couple were both poor when they met...there was no wooing with spa treatments, and the couple mostly went halfsies.
yes, that is specifically what I meant... that all relationships involve men treating women to spa treatments (because certainly all women like spa treatments)...duh...well lets try this: the vast majority of courtships involve wooing women with not so inexpensive gifts or dinners...and "halfsies" dont usually come into play until a relationship is established. there. now you dont have to focus on the specifics or get sidetracked by talk of spa treatments and you can try to comprehend the point, which as that most courtships involve men spending money on women before sex even enters the picture.

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Old 10-01-2012, 12:19 PM
 
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I can't believe this thread is still going. The "kinkiest" thing I could infer from CDers is that some might like porn or one-night stands, but NO prostitutes. Actually, some have admitted to sex party type stuff.
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Old 10-01-2012, 12:19 PM
 
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Men have to spend money in order to get sex. That is just the way things are. It doesn't degrade the woman at all. It actually empowers her.
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Old 10-01-2012, 12:57 PM
 
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Yes,that's hard work.
I have to put clothes on,put on makeup,and do my hair.
That costs money. So it isn't as easy as men think.
...no offense, and I get where you're coming from, but if thats what you call having to work for it, I wouldnt have even mentioned it if I were you...not at all even in the same league...and my guess is that you dont even HAVE to do that (go to bars). I challenge you to wake up, roll out of bed, (morning breath, f_cked up hair and all) walk outside and ask the first man you see to have sex with you and let me know the results. Unless you literally look like an overweight tegu, you'd probably be on your back within, I'd say 5-10 mins....tops
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Old 10-01-2012, 01:00 PM
 
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...no offense, and I get where you're coming from, but if thats what you call having to work for it, I wouldnt have even mentioned it if I were you...not at all even in the same league...and my guess is that you dont even HAVE to do that (go to bars). I challenge you to wake up, roll out of bed, (morning breath, f_cked up hair and all) walk outside and ask the first man you see to have sex with you and let me know the results. Unless you literally look like an overweight tegu, you'd probably be on your back within, I'd say 5-10 mins....tops

I wish I didn't have to live among men that did this.
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Old 10-01-2012, 02:10 PM
 
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I wish I didn't have to live among men that did this.
Ah..But alas, a tragic truth is unearthed. For not only do we live among them, we fraternize with them, and in many instances we are even related to them. They may be our cousins, brothers or uncles...It stems from a primitive opportunism inherent in the male species.
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Old 10-01-2012, 02:46 PM
 
Location: Center of the universe
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I'm not sure why men think a woman can just sit on her couch at home all day and still be able to have sex.
It isn't that easy.

I mean,even let's say a woman literally did sit home all day,where would she meet them?
You have to leave the house - usually.
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Old 10-01-2012, 02:56 PM
 
Location: East Coast of the United States
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How is a man who is in his 40s supposed to get in bed with an attractive woman in her 20s unless he is rich or pays for it? That is never going to happen. Let's be realistic.
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Old 10-01-2012, 03:16 PM
 
Location: SF CA, USA
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How is a man who is in his 40s supposed to get in bed with an attractive woman in her 20s unless he is rich or pays for it? That is never going to happen. Let's be realistic.
Unless your aiming purely for sex, what's wrong with women your age? Trust me you do not want to date my generation of women. Again we're talking relationships and not just physical pleasure-seeking.
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Old 10-01-2012, 05:03 PM
 
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Is there any hot male prostitutes?? I'm going to start saving my pennies because this shyt is getting ridiculous..
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