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Old 09-29-2012, 06:43 AM
 
Location: Atlanta & NYC
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Old 09-29-2012, 11:16 AM
 
Location: Central California
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How do you gain confidence from racist women who will put you down?
What does this even mean?

I live in one of the most superficial parts of the country and I hang out with many different races. They've never had any situations of racism. Then again, they're cool guys with tight game...
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Old 09-29-2012, 01:12 PM
 
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what racist women? Why do you care what racist women think unless you want to date that type anyways.
Mostly Caucasian women.
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Old 09-29-2012, 01:13 PM
 
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Old 09-29-2012, 02:48 PM
 
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I've never seen a woman approach and ask out a man. Heck, I've never even seen any threads about it on this forum. Whereas, I have seen many dozens of threads about men wanting to ask out women.

Oh, well, I've allowed myself to get involved in an argument that's a tangent on the original thread topic. I apologize for that. I'm done with this arguement.
some women do approach men, make the first move, initiate conversations and ask them out, but thats like expecting to win the lottery, don't count on it to happen
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Old 09-29-2012, 03:11 PM
 
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Don't count on anything happening towards your favor. Whatever you want to happen, go out and make it happen...
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Old 09-29-2012, 03:22 PM
 
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How do you gain confidence from racist women who will put you down?
I got this one

If a racist woman will put you down on the basis of your race then you blow her off like a hurricane. Racist people are not worth even considering. I find them rather pathetic.

Someone tells me that s/he doesn't like me on the basis of my ethnicity then I just roll my eyes and move on. It's just not worth my time.

If that is all you come across and you are surrounded by racist people who don't like you for your race, then I feel for you and hope that you can get away from that. No one should have to be subjected to such treatment.
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Old 09-29-2012, 04:18 PM
 
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I don't see the point in learning to love rejection. Rejection sucks, plain and simple. I think the better advice would be to learn to accept that rejection is likely to happen at points in your life and though it hurts initially, you will get over it. So you shouldn't fear putting yourself out there.
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Old 09-29-2012, 04:21 PM
 
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the message might be OK, but the idea of loving and embracing rejection is about the dumbest advice I've read on here.
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Old 09-29-2012, 04:36 PM
 
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Look at it this way, rejection could save you from something much worse...
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