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If a racist woman will put you down on the basis of your race then you blow her off like a hurricane. Racist people are not worth even considering. I find them rather pathetic.
Someone tells me that s/he doesn't like me on the basis of my ethnicity then I just roll my eyes and move on. It's just not worth my time.
If that is all you come across and you are surrounded by racist people who don't like you for your race, then I feel for you and hope that you can get away from that. No one should have to be subjected to such treatment.
There are conservative women who were raised only to go out with their own kind.
My friends are diversified but I do live around where the majority of people are Caucasians though.
I don't see the point in learning to love rejection. Rejection sucks, plain and simple. I think the better advice would be to learn to accept that rejection is likely to happen at points in your life and though it hurts initially, you will get over it. So you shouldn't fear putting yourself out there.
There isn't a guy on the planet who can get any women he wants.
Some of us are not able to read people very well. Even when there seem to be hints that a girl is interested in me, I'm still scared that I'm reading her wrong, and that me approaching her will cause her distress and disgust.
I'm afraid that I'm ugly and disgusting to women.
So it's better to just keep to myself and never know for sure that they all hate me.
Failure is an opportunity to do something else. Probably something that would be better off for you in the long run anyway hence everything happens for a reason. When it is a genuine opportunity you were rejected from, or in my eyes a lot of the time rejected yourself from, down the road sometime a week, or years you will realize why and it will make it worth being rejected. If you can't handle rejection there is always a bigger problem than just rejection itself and it will continue to rear it's ugly head. Case in point if you were truly confident rejection wouldn't matter because you would know that you could move on to the something else and not just hope that you do. So back to the simple answer: Lack of confidence.
Failure is an opportunity to do something else. Probably something that would be better off for you in the long run anyway hence everything happens for a reason. When it is a genuine opportunity you were rejected from, or in my eyes a lot of the time rejected yourself from, down the road sometime a week, or years you will realize why and it will make it worth being rejected. If you can't handle rejection there is always a bigger problem than just rejection itself and it will continue to rear it's ugly head. Case in point if you were truly confident rejection wouldn't matter because you would know that you could move on to the something else and not just hope that you do. So back to the simple answer: Lack of confidence.
I'm exactly with you. Insecurity is what makes rejection unbearable. The fact that you can handle rejection is a sign of... being functional. (Would've said maturity, but even immature people can handle rejection)
Also, there are some rejections where when I learned what I was rejected from, I came to love the fact that I was rejected from that. (but that was in hindsight).
I'd say, take your rejection and (shove it!!! LOL!!!) move on, pay it no mind.
Don't count on anything happening towards your favor. Whatever you want to happen, go out and make it happen...
i learn a long time ago that life is unfair, but it still angers me, pisses me off that guys, men have to make things happen, but women just have to allow it to happen
Actually, there are quite a few things that both men and women have to make happen...
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