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Old 09-29-2012, 07:52 AM
 
Location: The western periphery of Terra Australis
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The first time is almost always awkward. Maybe by the third time. Having sex with a prostitute isn't really the same though, I imagine.
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Old 09-29-2012, 07:56 AM
 
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The first time is almost always awkward. Maybe by the third time. Having sex with a prostitute isn't really the same though, I imagine.
Regardless, it is not a very popular option it seems because despite the fact that this board is a magnet for awkward aging virgins, not one man has responded saying this is now he lost his virginity. Lots of people saying they will, but they never do. What is up with that?
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Old 09-29-2012, 08:00 AM
 
Location: Des Moines IA
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Regardless, it is not a very popular option it seems because despite the fact that this board is a magnet for awkward aging virgins, not one man has responded saying this is now he lost his virginity. Lots of people saying they will, but they never do. What is up with that?

I agree with this. I know of two guys who actually went to prostitutes, but I never personally heard of a guy using a prostitute to lose his virginity. And I think it is because they actually want to be with a woman that they know and hopefully continue to see again. Not bang some prostitute that has no intentions of ever getting to know them.
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Old 09-29-2012, 09:29 AM
 
Location: East Coast of the United States
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As someone who thinks prostitution should be 100% legal I don't believe a man in this situation should go to one because IMO after you do it, your still in the same position because you were before because you still haven't gotten a woman to like you enough to sleep with you. That's 90% of it
It's a lot more superficial than that. The woman who's sleeping with you today can stop being intimate with you as soon as you become committed to her.

So, you're right back to square one.
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Old 09-29-2012, 10:04 AM
 
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In a few days I'll be with one. It's better to be awkward with a professional, they've seen it all and don't have any expectations.
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Old 09-29-2012, 11:00 AM
 
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In a few days I'll be with one. It's better to be awkward with a professional, they've seen it all and don't have any expectations.
Sure. We look forward to a full report.
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Old 09-29-2012, 11:14 AM
 
Location: City of Angels
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Regardless, it is not a very popular option it seems because despite the fact that this board is a magnet for awkward aging virgins, not one man has responded saying this is now he lost his virginity. Lots of people saying they will, but they never do. What is up with that?
isn't it obvious? guys who can't get laid don't go to prostitutes either. they're so socially awkward and scared of women that even a prostitute is too much for them to handle.
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Old 09-29-2012, 11:15 AM
 
Location: So Cal
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This wasn't covered in any other thread, and I didn't want it to get lost, (mods can move or merge if needed) BUT...

There has been some speculation that older virgin men will find a sense of relief and a boost in self-esteem/confidence if they go ahead and "get it over with" by using a prostitute.

So, does anyone have direct experience with this or know someone IRL who has? And what was the outcome? Does such an experience launch men into a new world of sexual confidence and success with women now that the monkey is off his back, so to speak?
No, no it doesn't.
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Old 09-29-2012, 11:20 AM
 
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Sure. We look forward to a full report.
There won't be one.
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Old 09-29-2012, 11:21 AM
 
Location: Central California
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In a few days I'll be with one. It's better to be awkward with a professional, they've seen it all and don't have any expectations.
Congrats man.

Don't let any of the angry feminists or the white knights on this forum convince you out of it.

Let me know how it goes!
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