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Old 09-28-2012, 08:59 PM
 
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i met a guy at the beach. He is an amazing person. We hang out very much and we slept together
he loves surfing and he gonna teach me surfing this sunday. he told me that he likes me

The problem is that he doesn't text me, it is always me who start texting . its always me who ask him to meet up and he take so much time to answer my text, sometimes he doesn't reply to my text
i like him so much and i want us to be in a relationship
i dunno what i should and should not do . i like him so much and i m getting more and more attached to him . i m scared to get hurt
please i need your advices
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Old 09-28-2012, 09:01 PM
 
Location: Pa
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Omg.....
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Old 09-28-2012, 09:02 PM
 
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my only advise it to stop over thinking and enjoy yourself. you're going to make yourself a clingy anxiety fueled mess if what you write is anywhere near how your are in person.
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Old 09-28-2012, 09:04 PM
 
Location: Australia
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Lol...

Go and get a book called

Puberty Blues by Kathy Lette.

I think you'll find it relevant.
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Old 09-28-2012, 09:08 PM
 
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The brain turns off when you like someone so much and I'm afraid there is nothing you can do about this.

The good news is that if you likes you a lot too, he will be with you, even if you have different communication styles. If he doesn't like you, he'll find some reason to dump you. You just have to wait and let things play out, but I suggest enjoying yourself and smelling the roses instead of worrying.
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Old 09-28-2012, 09:12 PM
 
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You're getting carried away with someone you've just met. He's giving you mixed messages, doesn't contact you and his replies to you are always delayed. He's really not into you in that way. He only views you as a girl he met on the beach and had sex with. Stop contacting him and let go of this fantasy that you have about the two of you because it's not gonna happen. It sounds you like slept with him pretty early on. If you're the type who can't sleep with a guy without getting emotionally attached, then don't jump in bed with a guy so soon because this is what usually happens. Now he has your heart and by you making yourself available and meeting up with him, he can take advantage and charm you when he wants to sleep with you.
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Old 09-28-2012, 09:18 PM
 
Location: Australia
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OP how old are you?
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Old 09-28-2012, 09:21 PM
 
Location: Lehighton/Jim Thorpe area
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Maybe he hates texting or has a bad phone plan.
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Old 09-29-2012, 01:15 AM
 
Location: Australia
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Go and get the morning after pill tomorrow.
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Old 09-29-2012, 01:27 AM
 
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Some people just don't like to text. I just recently was able to text because I was not paying for a plan that included texting. Well actually I could text but was charged per text without the plan. Maybe when you see him next you can casually ask him why he never text's you and sometimes doesn't answer your texts.
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