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Dude she wants you as a backup plan. Monkeybrancher. Read more about it since its ingrained in the DNA of a lot of women.
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Originally Posted by CSD610
If you want to always be the rebound guy go for it, if not tell her you have moved on and quit having contact with her.
You guys have a very rational point. But its not like she's constantly writing me first and bombarding me with the fluffy stuff.I trigger the conversations more than she does you know? I say a normal "whats up?..." and so on. I think what she's saying is genuine.
I almost caused her and her dude to break up which means something is still there. but in the argument leading to OUR break up we both said some real disrespectful things, it was a big argument. She has a strong sense of pride. who's gonna come back right after the things i've said in the argument?
She makes some decisions off of pride. I completely understand what you guys are saying but I doubt its totally a rebound thing. then again Maybe you're right lol. She hasn't come on too strong but it was usual that she tells me this now BUT she still had something for me while she was out with her other guy.
I doubt it's a rebound thing, too, given your history. I don't think these messages mean she wants to be with you, though. I will say - or rather, ask - this: When have you ever deeply wanted to been with someone? Could anything - anything a'tall - keep you from being with them? It sounds like she does have mixed feelings. However, those are of no benefit to your reconciliation until they become a deep desire to be with you and not someone else.
I doubt it's a rebound thing, too, given your history. I don't think these messages mean she wants to be with you, though. I will say - or rather, ask - this: When have you ever deeply wanted to been with someone? Could anything - anything a'tall - keep you from being with them? It sounds like she does have mixed feelings. However, those are of no benefit to your reconciliation until they become a deep desire to be with you and not someone else.
Nice. im glad you seem to understand my point more than the others. That sounds like old english, took me back to R and J for a sec lol
People keep telling you what it means and you keep arguing with them. You are only going to do what you want in the end so why did you even bother asking?
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