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Old 09-29-2012, 08:19 PM
 
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what if the guy you like never comes around to asking you out?

just move on?
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Old 09-29-2012, 08:21 PM
 
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How about you ask him for coffee and if he says no then move on, I don't wait on anyone.
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Old 09-29-2012, 08:24 PM
 
Location: Southern California
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what if the guy you like never comes around to asking you out?

just move on?
Depends. Are you the kind of person who wants things to happen and does something to make it happen or are you the kind of person who hopes things will happen and waits for others to make it happen?

[it's the 21st century people!]
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Old 09-30-2012, 12:11 AM
 
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BUT if you ask him.... doesn't it totally upset the whole dynamic?

Like the guy should ask. Maybe I'm old fashioned. But he should.
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Old 09-30-2012, 12:15 AM
 
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BUT if you ask him.... doesn't it totally upset the whole dynamic?

Like the guy should ask. Maybe I'm old fashioned. But he should.
Upset the whole dynamic? What dynamic? That's a fabrication of a conventional mind!

[if there is something you want - GO GET IT!]
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Old 09-30-2012, 12:17 AM
 
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BUT if you ask him.... doesn't it totally upset the whole dynamic?

Like the guy should ask. Maybe I'm old fashioned. But he should.

Either you ask him out for coffee or you don't, your choice and there is no dynamic to upset if you ask him and he accepts or rejects. Either way you find out if he is as interested in getting to know you as you are in getting to know him. Now go put on those big girl panties, take a deep breath and ask the guy already or don't and wonder "what if" for the rest of eternity.
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Old 09-30-2012, 12:23 AM
 
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Old 09-30-2012, 12:25 AM
 
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BUT if you ask him.... doesn't it totally upset the whole dynamic?

Like the guy should ask. Maybe I'm old fashioned. But he should.
Since when is waiting around for the world to come to your doorstep "dynamic".

Hoping, wanting, believing.... are useless without action to realize what you hope for, want, or believe in.
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Old 09-30-2012, 12:29 AM
 
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Oh screw him.

Faint heart never won fair lady.

They have to be a LITTLE bit brave, otherwise they're just not real men.

Move on. Find one who doesn't even ask, just assumes you're going out with him, and home with him afterwards.
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Old 09-30-2012, 12:30 AM
 
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well... ok... so I invited him out with me and a friend. Don't know if he will want to come

I guess I'll have to just wait and see how this all pans out

I just think that a proper date is a man asking a woman out for some activity, a meal, drink, or coffee

The man should ask...
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