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as a woman who used to have large breasts like yours and at one time entering law enforcement, i never had issues with men taking me seriously. My buddies were military. They'd make wise cracks about my chest every now and then, but it was no different than any of us teasing each other for other attributes.
I don't see her "defending" her choice to get fake boobs. I see her trying to show that if there wasn't an interest in larger breasts, the demand for augmentation wouldn't exist. I would imagine we would be hearing more about men's distaste for them if that was the case and women just wouldn't be having those procedures performed. No different than buttocks implants which are all the rage these days. Women are doing it to attract men and i don't hear men complaining that "they're fake."
besides, don't you get defensive over your choice to mark your body with tattoos when people seem to voice the negative opinions about them or the people who opt to get them?
As a woman who used to have large breasts like yours and at one time entering law enforcement, I never had issues with men taking me seriously. My buddies were military. They'd make wise cracks about my chest every now and then, but it was no different than any of us teasing each other for other attributes.
I don't see her "defending" her choice to get fake boobs. I see her trying to show that if there wasn't an interest in larger breasts, the demand for augmentation wouldn't exist. I would imagine we would be hearing more about men's distaste for them if that was the case and women just wouldn't be having those procedures performed. No different than buttocks implants which are all the rage these days. Women are doing it to attract men and I don't hear men complaining that "they're fake."
Besides, don't you get defensive over your choice to mark your body with tattoos when people seem to voice the negative opinions about them or the people who opt to get them?
Maybe it's the industry I was working in then, because I had managers laugh at me and tell me I'd make more money as a prostitute than as a mechanic if I EVER dared wear a shirt lower than my collarbones to work before changing into my uniform. I became a huge fan of sweatshirts and men's tshirts for many years
Honestly, I think it has more to do with her attitude than the implants themselves. I have a few friends that have implants and they're wonderful people, but they also don't post a TON of pictures online of their boobs so it really seems they got them for themselves and not to garner attention.
I've actually thought about the tattoo thing before, because I know I've gotten defensive over my choice to get them. But if I were going around calling anyone with implants a prostitute or 'loose' I think there would be more of a comparison. I've had people on here tell me I'm a criminal or a drug addict because of my tattoos. There's a big difference in saying 'ew, I don't like tattoos/breast implants etc.' and 'Anyone who has them is a ho/criminal'. I hope that makes sense
I don't see her "defending" her choice to get fake boobs. I see her trying to show that if there wasn't an interest in larger breasts, the demand for augmentation wouldn't exist. I would imagine we would be hearing more about men's distaste for them if that was the case and women just wouldn't be having those procedures performed. No different than buttocks implants which are all the rage these days. Women are doing it to attract men and I don't hear men complaining that "they're fake."
Besides, don't you get defensive over your choice to mark your body with tattoos when people seem to voice the negative opinions about them or the people who opt to get them?
I agree.
However that doesn't appear to be her reasoning. She is arguing that anyone who doesn't find them to be a 'turn-on' a liar.
Sure women are doing it to attract men. Men aren't attracted to them because they are fake though.
The buttocks implants are even more ridiculous than breast implants though.
Guess I just don't understand how somebody can be that unhappy with their body or crave that much attention.
Maybe they never got held enough as a baby. Who knows.
We sure do live in a materialistic world these days.
Maybe it's the industry I was working in then, because I had managers laugh at me and tell me I'd make more money as a prostitute than as a mechanic
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Very often you say how men outright make these outrageous and insulting comments to you , like men you work with. You mention it often enough that I have to wonder if you are exaggerating a bit because even though us men can be crude at times I hardly have ever been around or known men to say so openly such things to a woman. I have worked with grease techs, I have worked with management types, I have been around and it just doesn't seem so.
Responding to other comment would I leave her like a drop of the hat I had said before that no. There was a post on another thread mentioning where a guy became cripple and after two years he gave his wife permission to seek sexual relief elsewhere. I may love boobs but that doesn't mean I just love her boobs, I don't need to explain what real love is to everybody I think. But what if you where my girl and you lost your boobs, and I stayed with because I do love you. You would probably understand in your mind that I have a fascination and that aspect is lost with you now, would you be alright with me filling that fascination to a boob porno or something or would you expect me to suppress my very nature?
Imagine a woman who really has a thing for 6'5" or taller men. Not many men are that it is rather uncommon. Would you scold her for wanting a man that height? Would you call her superficial? What if she met a man that for reasons she fell in love with but he was 5'5". He turns her on for other reasons, she emotionally loves him but sometimes she just thinks about her very nature and desire of being drawn to very tall men. Well it isn't any different for a guy who has a boob fascination. So what is the optimum thing to do for that woman who like really tall men and for I who like real big boobs? Find the right tall guy with a emotional connection and find the right big boobed girl with a real emotional connection. Since tall men and women with big boobs are rare, but especially getting a right emotional connection is ultra rare, it is no easy thing.
Very often you say how men outright make these outrageous and insulting comments to you , like men you work with. You mention it often enough that I have to wonder if you are exaggerating a bit because even though us men can be crude at times I hardly have ever been around or known men to say so openly such things to a woman. I have worked with grease techs, I have worked with management types, I have been around and it just doesn't seem so.
Responding to other comment would I leave her like a drop of the hat I had said before that no. There was a post on another thread mentioning where a guy became cripple and after two years he gave his wife permission to seek sexual relief elsewhere. I may love boobs but that doesn't mean I just love her boobs, I don't need to explain what real love is to everybody I think. But what if you where my girl and you lost your boobs, and I stayed with because I do love you. You would probably understand in your mind that I have a fascination and that aspect is lost with you now, would you be alright with me filling that fascination to a boob porno or something or would you expect me to suppress my very nature?
Imagine a woman who really has a thing for 6'5" or taller men. Not many men are that it is rather uncommon. Would you scold her for wanting a man that height? Would you call her superficial? What if she met a man that for reasons she fell in love with but he was 5'5". He turns her on for other reasons, she emotionally loves him but sometimes she just thinks about her very nature and desire of being drawn to very tall men. Well it isn't any different for a guy who has a boob fascination. So what is the optimum thing to do for that woman who like really tall men and for I who like real big boobs? Find the right tall guy with a emotional connection and find the right big boobed girl with a real emotional connection. Since tall men and women with big boobs are rare, but especially getting a right emotional connection is ultra rare, it is no easy thing.
I think I've just had some bad luck, because everything I've said on here is completely true. I met one of my closest female friends at a shop we worked at in our early 20s and it's kind of a bonding thing we have since we were both in the same position. Even she has issues with men to this day because of working there, and she had issues working at a hardware store when she lived in Hawaii as well. I think it's because neither one of us are particularly 'feminine' in traditional sense, we're both tall (I'm 6'1, she's 5'10) and we're not skinny and tiny, we also tend to be confident and straight forward. She's a welder now and I'm still a mechanic so I think men feel comfortable telling us the truth because we can 'handle it'. I can guarantee if I were a lithe, petite, cute 5'3 woman they wouldn't say the things to her that they did to us. I know because I've experienced it with the women I've worked with. If they're cute, small and feminine they treat them like gold but if they're like me or my friend they treat us like men with boobs.
Anyway, I don't know if I would be okay with you searching out 'boob porn' because it would give me a big inferiority complex. I obviously wouldn't be good enough for you and I'd probably leave, to be honest. At that point, it wouldn't be worth staying with you if you're going to look for satisfaction elsewhere because I'm not good enough for you anymore.
As for the tall men thing, I don't have a real preference or fetish for a physical attribute so I honestly can't understand that. If a woman wanted a man who was 6'5 or taller and discounted shorter men I would absolutely call her shallow, though. Honestly, I don't think women are as dead set on physical attributes as men are. Men seem to have far more physical deal breakers than women do.
As a woman who used to have large breasts like yours and at one time entering law enforcement, I never had issues with men taking me seriously. My buddies were military. They'd make wise cracks about my chest every now and then, but it was no different than any of us teasing each other for other attributes.
I don't see her "defending" her choice to get fake boobs. I see her trying to show that if there wasn't an interest in larger breasts, the demand for augmentation wouldn't exist. I would imagine we would be hearing more about men's distaste for them if that was the case and women just wouldn't be having those procedures performed. No different than buttocks implants which are all the rage these days. Women are doing it to attract men and I don't hear men complaining that "they're fake."
Besides, don't you get defensive over your choice to mark your body with tattoos when people seem to voice the negative opinions about them or the people who opt to get them?
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I agree.
However that doesn't appear to be her reasoning. She is arguing that anyone who doesn't find them to be a 'turn-on' a liar.
No I didn't, stop inventing things. I just said when there is a discrepancy between the known fact that most men idolize, oogle over in mags, and spank off to augmented women and what a few men say behind a keyboard (because we know the internet is oozing with honest people), I'm inclined to go with the former as my guideline.
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Sure women are doing it to attract men. Men aren't attracted to them because they are fake though.
Collective male narcissism rearing its head again. Women get breast implants for numerous reasons, and yes, some of that can have something do with being more attractive to the men in their lives, but that's certainly not the entirety of it. However, you'd see a lot of explants and a sharp drop in the rates of augmentation if men were repulsed by them. Which of course they're not because they're busy spanking off to them.
I never even guessed how much men were into augmented breasts until I got them. Even though clearly I got them for myself. Even men who are self-proclaimed butt men are fascinated by them. My ex (another self proclaimed butt guy who I'm still friendly with) poked them out of curiousity since he hadn't seen me post op and he was aroused all day and couldn't stop talking about them.
My bf, who is the only one who really gets to play with them, was into me boobs both pre op and post, but damn he really won't leave them alone for one second if he's alone with me...I know that's a bit TMI. "Money well spent" were his exact words and I was a 34C/32D pre op, you can look at my photo album. I know from looking around me and my experience men in general adore augmenteds.
Even guys I knew who told me they hated fake breasts are obsessed with mine. Maybe it's the idea they dislike or the fact I had large breasts already but they can't stop talking about them now.
Now, I'm sure there are dudes out there that really and truly find fake boobs gross. But the vast majority obviously feel the opposite.
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Guess I just don't understand how somebody can be that unhappy with their body or crave that much attention.
What attention? I thought men found implants repulsive?
That said, I get my hair straightened, I diet, I straighten my teeth, remove my body hair and do all sorts of things to make myself look better. Like most women, I'm clearly unhappy with the body God gave me.
Give it up, it's pathetic at this point.
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God made women, to be the most beautiful creatures on earth.... (unless they get pi$$ed and go psycho)
breast size is part of the whole package...if advertised, men will, of course look, and why not, men are very visual...
most men, dont mind smaller breasts size, again part of a whole package, AND if you do have a guy that will only be with with large breasted woman, they are usually the control freaks,,that get all upset when other guys look at there woman..
a waste of the womans time..
No I didn't, stop inventing things. I just said when there is a discrepancy between the known fact that most men idolize, oogle over in mags, and spank off to augmented women and what a few men say behind a keyboard (because we know the internet is oozing with honest people), I'm inclined to go with the former as my guideline.
Collective male narcissism rearing its head again. Women get breast implants for numerous reasons, and yes, some of that can have something do with being more attractive to the men in their lives, but that's certainly not the entirety of it. However, you'd see a lot of explants and a sharp drop in the rates of augmentation if men were repulsed by them. Which of course they're not because they're busy spanking off to them.
I never even guessed how much men were into augmented breasts until I got them. Even though clearly I got them for myself. Even men who are self-proclaimed butt men are fascinated by them. My ex (another self proclaimed butt guy who I'm still friendly with) poked them out of curiousity since he hadn't seen me post op and he was aroused all day and couldn't stop talking about them.
My bf, who is the only one who really gets to play with them, was into me boobs both pre op and post, but damn he really won't leave them alone for one second if he's alone with me...I know that's a bit TMI. "Money well spent" were his exact words and I was a 34C/32D pre op, you can look at my photo album. I know from looking around me and my experience men in general adore augmenteds.
Even guys I knew who told me they hated fake breasts are obsessed with mine. Maybe it's the idea they dislike or the fact I had large breasts already but they can't stop talking about them now.
Now, I'm sure there are dudes out there that really and truly find fake boobs gross. But the vast majority obviously feel the opposite.
What attention? I thought men found implants repulsive?
That said, I get my hair straightened, I diet, I straighten my teeth, remove my body hair and do all sorts of things to make myself look better. Like most women, I'm clearly unhappy with the body God gave me.
Give it up, it's pathetic at this point.
Im not going to keep going on about this. You have flat out called people liars.
Repulsed and unattractive are totally different. Men are attracted to boobs. The bigger and firmer the better. It is definitely a turn on if they are natural, big and firm. Not so much if the are augmented.
It is the boobs. Not augmentation. You have a big misconception with that.
Its not a black and white subject. Males dont just find them either gross or a turn-on. Some find them gross and some do find them a turn-on. Most dont mind them. But they still prefer natural.
I prefer natural and find augmented to be unattractive. That does NOT mean I think they are gross. Because I dont think they are gross, doesnt mean I find them I turn on.
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My buddies were military. They'd make wise cracks about my chest every now and then, but it was no different than any of us teasing each other for other attributes.
"Money well spent" were his exact words and I was a 34C/32D pre op, you can look at my photo album. I know from looking around me and my experience men in general adore augmenteds.
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